Was I a fool?

[Tendencies]

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[LouBerry]

I'm sorry that happened to you. Girls have this thing that we all do. We might have crushes on different guys, but only want to be friends with them. We want all the good parts of a relationship, like hanging out all the time, and texting like best friends, and all that, without the commitment and fighting that goes on in an actual relationship.

Like, all my best friends are guys. I don't really feel anything romantic towards any of them, but I suppose that I act like I do, because I don't always understand that I can't treat them like my girl friends. I just want someone to cuddle with and hangout with and I don't know, play video games with, no feelings attached, and I'm afraid we all do that sometimes.

[thatcountrykid]

Im sorry bud it sucks. I had asked a girl to homecoming dance last year because it really seamed like she liked me and i liked her. I asked her and she flat out laughed in my face. I went to the bonfire with a friend and i saw her there and she kind of avoided me. I went to the game with another friend and his date but just kind of left because i just felt like a third wheel. Youll get over it bud. I takes awhile but trust me, ive gone through it a few times, it just takes time. I hope this helped.

[JamesSuperBoy]

I am sorry this has happened - there could be lots of reasons for what she said before -
but at least she has been clear now sort of and by speaking about the guy before hand maybe she was trying to let you know -

sore as it might be - at least you know now -

[Luminous]

First off, If im sorry to drop this on anyone who reads this, but i really need to let some this out, i think i've held in to much. So if you are willing to read this I dearly thank you. So there was this girl on the first day of HS, we seemed like we would be total best friends! She had other friends also and she introduced me to them, im just like "This is awesome, im getting friends!" So then one day she talked about homecoming and she was just telling me. She was saying how she has nobody and how everyone else has like BFs and GFs. So I trying to be all supportive and stuff and it seemed ike she was dropping hints for me to ask her. I also mentioned the day before that I wanted to go see a movie and she said, "We should go see it together!" I was all for it, and by this time I was kind of smitten by her. That never did happen. I ended up asking her to the Homecoming dance and she said, "I was dying for you to ask me c:" I would say like a week later or so, I suggested that we should go to our schools first football game of the year. She was just all for that! The way she texted me, with all of the emoticons was just making it seem like she was into me also, but then the time came around for the football game, which was last night, and I was assuming it was just gonna be us but she brought along like 5 friends. I was just like whatever about that then when we got up into the bleachers, she kept talking about this guy she liked, she didn't say a name so I was just like, "ITS ME :D". Oh no. She finally pointed out some guy on the football team. My heart like literally dropped. I had no words for probably the next hour or so. I really felt like leaving but I couldn't. Then after the JV game, the guy she pointed out came up to where we were sitting. They both walked away somewhere together, just them. Then her friend that was with us said, "They're not coming back." I couldn't take it anymore, so I just left. I then texted her later asking her, "If you liked that guy, why did you seem so happy for me to ask you to homecoming?" She hasn't responded.
Thank you to anyone who read the whole thing.
*I'm truly sorry for actually posting this I just needed to let this out*

I thought you had just read into it all wrong but then I remembered the dance. It was foolish of HER to tell you she wanted you to ask her to the dance. I don't think you've done anything wrong here.

[Cygnus]

I don't think you did anything wrong really, it is her decision on what crush to have. Sorry buddy. I think we would like to know what she says when she responds.

[Running420]

Im sorry man, but yea you have been played.. Remember that females dont have a soul, and most of them wont hesitate to play with your feelings if they are given the chance.

When your getting a relationship with a girl, you have to try to go where you wanna go with it, and enjoy the good time you have, but expect it all to fuck up anytime couse at some point it will. And most important dont ever think that someone is 'the love of your life' or 'the one and only', cause such things doesnt exist and believing it will destroy you believe me on that one.

[BuryYourFlame]

Im sorry man, but yea you have been played.. Remember that females dont have a soul, and most of them wont hesitate to play with your feelings if they are given the chance.

When your getting a relationship with a girl, you have to try to go where you wanna go with it, and enjoy the good time you have, but expect it all to fuck up anytime couse at some point it will. And most important dont ever think that someone is 'the love of your life' or 'the one and only', cause such things doesnt exist and believing it will destroy you believe me on that one.

Whoa, I'm all for calling people out when they treat people terribly (like in this case), but you can't attribute it to the female gender exclusively, or in such broad terms. The girl the OP was talking about was terrible, but that doesn't mean all girls are. From the sounds of it you've had bad experiences as well, but again, that doesn't mean that all (or even most) will have this attitude.

Guys put out a lot of shit too remember.

To the OP, move on man, forget about her as best you can and get out there and try and find someone new, or stay single for a while and just hang out with your friends. You don't need her in your life and it's just going to cause bad feelings for you.