My male fantasies

[Leemac1999]

I am 14 male and I really like men's bodies I think they are beautiful and very arousing to me. Women have been less and less hot to me and I think about men. I can imagine me going out with a man and doing everything except putting his cock in me I don't know why that freaks me out. I also am always thinks about putting a guys cock in my mouth and sucking it sounds so hot.

[ksdnfkfr]

So what's your question?

[Leemac1999]

Why me ? Why can't. I just like girls the way I like men ? Why can't I be normal like my friends?

[ksdnfkfr]

Liking girls doesn't make you normal. The reason why you're not like your friends is because you're different. Being different is not a bad thing. But it does make it more difficult to fit in. I'm finding out that I'm going back and forth on what interests me sexually and what doesn't. I think they call that the puberty roller coaster. At least you have friends, I don't. Why me, why can't I have friends? I guess growing up has a lot if "why me" in it. I get by on hoping everything will fall together once I grow up.

[sqishy]

Normal is relative, and it's not about being in the majority. We are all different, some of us more different than others.

[James Bond]

That's how I am. If I were with a guy, I'd much rather receive then give. Some homosexuals are just like you, they couldn't imagine giving. Some homosexuals are disgusted by the idea of putting their penis in another guys butt.

[Harley Quinn]

Why me ? Why can't. I just like girls the way I like men ? Why can't I be normal like my friends?

Just because you like guys, that doesn't make you any less normal and if you think it does I just don't think you're 100% comfortable with yourself yet, that is totally okay. If you like guys, you like guys, if you like girls too, congratulations you're still a human either way and you're still always going to be normal.

[Grisham]

Even if you like man you are normal. Don't think that you aren't normal if you are gay or bi. What is the problem? :)

[byee]

Liam, I think what you're saying here is that your expectations about puberty (what's attractive to you) is turning out to be different than you thought or want. Welcome to puberty. There are a lot of reasons why this happens, and sexual orientation is only one. Mostly, it's hormones, they're very distracting. You might find men arousing simply b/c you're one yourself and you identify with them, or your new found awareness about yourself makes it easier be aware of guys, it's familiar and comfortable for you. As you get to know more girls, your comfort level with them will increase, they'll seem more familiar and less scary to you and you might find that they're arousing to you, too.

Give it some time, remember that sexuality isn't just about what arouses you, and that as you have more actual experience with girls as just people, your feeling might change.

[justin 13]

Dude I dunno if this helps, Im gay and I don't like taking in any dick. I love boys and stuff but anal is not for me, maybe I will change when I find the right person. And I am a normal boy being gay.

[Jamie_P]

Being "normal" isnt defied by whether or not you like girls or not. theres nothing wrong with feeling attracted to someone of the same sex. Just embrace your sexuality. Having said that, you're only 14 and still going through puberty, so your hormones are all over the place, meaning its actually quite normal for boys to have sexual feelings for other men - it might just be a phase. Remember, you still have plenty of time to discover yourself, so don't worry about it, and keep true to yourself :)

[charliebaltimore]

don't treat yourself as abnormal, weird or a freak. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you, just go with what your heart tells you :) x

[steellord321]

Why not you? Some people are gay, whether you are or not, your going to be *fine* I get that you're worried about your friends reactions and don't want to be "different" but in time you'll accept it and they probly will too.

[Magnus Bane]

dont feel abnormal if you are gay then embrace it people will be di**s about it but so what just ignore them. you are who you are embrace it

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Don't think that. Just be yourself.

[teen.jpg]

You're just as normal as a guy who likes girls?

Normality is a stupid thing anyway, but that's a different topic.

Don't worry about it! Just be happy of who you are, you'll be fine.

[GeorgeBoy]

If you like guys and less girls try to do thinks with girls and then with guys ;)

[Gifford]

Why me ? Why can't. I just like girls the way I like men ? Why can't I be normal like my friends?

Ask yourself this: why NOT you? Because you're NOT like your friends, that's why. Being gay is normal too, You're trying to compare yourself to str8 guys, and you're NOT LIKE str8 guys. You do not have an attraction to girls and you don't see yourself as being emotionally attracted to girls; you instead have a strong sexual and emotional attraction to guys.

Something in you is afraid of accepting your homosexuality, or your gayness. You have to ask yourself some tough questions, and it's imperative that you be honest with yourself.

If you kid yourself into thinking you can "make do" with a girl, you'll forever live a life that is dishonest, unfair to her, and you'll be cheating yourself out of what can be a wonderful life spent with a terrific guy who loves you and whom you love with your heart and soul. That's a wonderful joy to be found in living an authentic life and being courageous enough to accept the way you are, and stop wishing you could change who you are,

Can you change your eye color? Can you change your heighth? Can you change the flavor of your favorite ice cream? No, you can't. Neither can you change your sexuality. Your only choice is to accept who you are, embrace it, love who you are, and don't put yourself down for being the way God made you. You are a perfect Child of God, you're one of His kids who he loves, and there are no mistakes in God's world. Everything happens for a reason. Part of your lesson in this like is to discover and accept who you are.

[Harley Quinn]

Don't bump threads. :locked: