Is my friend bisexual?

[TheHim]

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[byee]

Two things here, Jakob: First, forget about surveys and tests that claim to reveal something as complex as human sexuality.


Second, how old is your "Friend"?

[likemike]

Are you just attracted to the guys in gay porn or is it guys in general

[justin 13]

Dude don't label yourself, and I know that this will sound like my Dad advise BTW it is, don't watch porn.

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[Vincent_Dat_Guy]

Are you just attracted

[byee]

Ok, 14, thanks.

Especially at 14, you can't tell much about sexuality by just attraction or arousal. It's confusing b/c we always assume "sexuality"= arousal. Yes, but much more, like how you see yourself and others and who you feel emotionally closest to and safest with, stuff that takes a while to figure out.

Your friend is new to the powerful effects of puberty, which are very arousing. Give it some time and perhaps most importantly, get to know some girls really well (not just sexually!) and see if those feelings aren't clarified. Until then, try not to judge yourself, you do have enough experience or info yet to draw an accurate conclusion.

[ksdnfkfr]

That's what I'm doing, giving it time. I don't know where I'll be at when I'm 18 or 20, so for now I'm just going with my current flow.