View Full Version : Apparently I creeped out one of my best friends/crush, and now she hates me.....
NeedAnAnswer
September 6th, 2013, 06:51 PM
At the very end of last year, I found out she liked me, and I actually really liked her too. So, we talked a few times on facebook during the summer, and I wanted to talked to her more, so on many occasions I messaged her, but she didn't respond to any of them. Then, she unfriended me, I asked her what I did wrong, then she blocked me, which I was/am really torn over, since I really liked her. Now summers over, and she's acting like I don't exist. I haven't tried to talk to her, but we've seen each other in the halls and she just glances at me as she walks by. My head is full of f**k now. I don't know if I should try to make it up to her, or just give up with her and move on, and I want to make it up to her, but I don't know if I can. I'm also in a class with one of her friends, and I've been meaning to talk to her friend about this, and although I don't have any particular feelings for her, as pathetic as it sounds, I have trouble talking to girls (I'm actually somewhat friends with her friend, but still).
WOT DO?
STEALTHy
September 6th, 2013, 08:01 PM
I don't know exactly what your did since there isn't any specifics in what you really did. It's possible you gave her to much attention and said something wrong. Anyway that's besides the point, you just need to forget about her. Don't be wasting your time with a girl who doesn't respect and like you back. You'll just end up making things worse, if you 2 really are friends. Then savior what you have and just be her friend. Don't give her any attention either and if she ask for small little favors don't do them. Find some excuse, anyway best of luck pal I had the same thing recently.
James Bond
September 6th, 2013, 08:32 PM
At the very end of last year, I found out she liked me, and I actually really liked her too. So, we talked a few times on facebook during the summer, and I wanted to talked to her more, so on many occasions I messaged her, but she didn't respond to any of them. Then, she unfriended me, I asked her what I did wrong, then she blocked me, which I was/am really torn over, since I really liked her. Now summers over, and she's acting like I don't exist. I haven't tried to talk to her, but we've seen each other in the halls and she just glances at me as she walks by. My head is full of f**k now. I don't know if I should try to make it up to her, or just give up with her and move on, and I want to make it up to her, but I don't know if I can. I'm also in a class with one of her friends, and I've been meaning to talk to her friend about this, and although I don't have any particular feelings for her, as pathetic as it sounds, I have trouble talking to girls (I'm actually somewhat friends with her friend, but still).
WOT DO?
It makes no sense why shed do that. She's kinda weird for doing that. It's not you, it's her.
Just talk to girls like you would any girl. That's what I do. It can be scary, but you just have to fight the nerves.
MoonMan
September 8th, 2013, 03:50 AM
Really random and weird if she did that for no reason, perhaps you should move on. Chick seems a bit fucked up to be quite honest.
Gumleaf
September 8th, 2013, 05:03 AM
This has happened to me on the friend level before. As hard as it is when you really like them, you'll save yourself further pain if you try and forget about her and just move on.
Nicola14Swaggy
September 8th, 2013, 05:12 AM
English lessons might help (don't find this offensive)
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