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bigbean
September 5th, 2013, 07:25 PM
So I consider myself straight, but I started working with this new guy. I find him very attractive, in fact, I find him sexually attractive. I think he could be gay by the way he acts but I'm not sure. I'm interested but I don't know how to ask or tell if hes gay without just saying it to his face. How can I ask him or how can I figure out if he's gay?

TommyTom
September 5th, 2013, 07:28 PM
ask him?? :)
Or dont u want anyone know that u have interest in guys maybe?? :O

Harley Quinn
September 5th, 2013, 07:31 PM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

Laquifa
September 5th, 2013, 07:50 PM
Just ask. That's the best way. If you don't want to be awkward if he says no, then just drop hints that you are LGBT friendly. Any LGBT person will probably open up to you a lot quicker just by letting them know you don't have a problem with them.

ksdnfkfr
September 5th, 2013, 07:53 PM
Either just come right out and ask or get to know him better. Make sure if you ask on the spot that you're not making it sound like an accusation.

TheLivingLie
September 6th, 2013, 12:38 PM
i guess just ask him out, if he says no then he probably isnt gay, but if u ask if he's gay, he might/probably will say no, because stupid people think being gay is wrong and he might not want any 1 to know he is gay.

justin 13
September 8th, 2013, 07:34 AM
Try to start talking about gay stuff just to know what he thinks about it I wouldn't ask a direct question.

Hermes96
September 8th, 2013, 08:03 AM
just drop hints about being LBGT friendly then work out if hes at least LGBT friendly if he is ask him if he's not don't

Jamie_P
September 15th, 2013, 11:19 AM
Just start a general conversation with him and see if you can get an idea of his sexual orientation from any clues he may give way, and then eventually ask him if he's into guys or girls. Then its up to you to tell him how you feel about him.

Magnus Bane
September 15th, 2013, 01:13 PM
get to know him better and maybe he will open up to you or you can see what his opinions are on the LGBT community.

sqishy
September 15th, 2013, 01:40 PM
Try to get across to him that you are fine with the whole LGBT thing, and give subtle hints that you like him. See where things go from there :)

teen.jpg
September 15th, 2013, 09:48 PM
I mean thinking someone's gay by the way they act is probably not the best way to go about the situation, but just ask him casually.

Cognizant
September 15th, 2013, 10:32 PM
If you're prepared for some real awkwardness, just ask him.
If you'd like to alleviate the awkwardness, I highly recommend that you befriend him a bit more first before asking him.

GeorgeBoy
September 16th, 2013, 02:13 AM
ask him first !!!