Confused

[Cassia]

I know that I'm not gay because I'm attracted to boys. But I don't know how I feel about girls. People say that you "just know" what sexuality you are. I'm not sure if I'm gay, bi or curious. Anyone got any advice?

[Tarannosaurus]

Sexuality is very fluid and it's normal to question during puberty. The best advice I can
give you is just go with the flow, you'll figure it out eventually... not very helpful but
there's not much more you can do. You could try experimenting with girls. Try to relax
and don't be too worried about labeling yourself :)

[ska8er]

i think whatever turns u on. im curious and confused most of the time.

[LouBerry]

i think whatever turns u on. im curious and confused most of the time.

What "turns you on" doesn't nessicarily help you out with your sexuality. For example there are plenty of straight guy who like watching gay porn, but don't like men.

Your sexuality is way more than just a sexual appeal. Like someone else already said, maybe try experimenting. Or at least think about it, and see how you feel considering it.

[ksdnfkfr]

Give it time to work itself out. I'm finding out that I'm all over the place right now.

[ska8er]

What "turns you on" doesn't nessicarily help you out with your sexuality. For example there are plenty of straight guy who like watching gay porn, but don't like men.

Your sexuality is way more than just a sexual appeal. Like someone else already said, maybe try experimenting. Or at least think about it, and see how you feel considering it.

i experimented with both and i like both but dont kno y it is like that. i would say its normal but other guys and girls maybe would say no. im sure some would. :confused:

[photojared]

it takes time, you can't say right away your gay or straight or bi, I had some problems with that when I was little but only you can know, everyone is different you will figure it out, I hope the best to you

[LouBerry]

i experimented with both and i like both but dont kno y it is like that. i would say its normal but other guys and girls maybe would say no. im sure some would. :confused:

It's not weird, I mean, you are who you are. I've never liked/ or been curious about girls, I like my men. But, some girls like girls, some girls like both. And vice versa.

[ska8er]

It's not weird, I mean, you are who you are. I've never liked/ or been curious about girls, I like my men. But, some girls like girls, some girls like both. And vice versa.

i dont hear bout bisexual girls or know of any but i guess there r.

[Poisonberry]

I know that I'm not gay because I'm attracted to boys. But I don't know how I feel about girls. People say that you "just know" what sexuality you are. I'm not sure if I'm gay, bi or curious. Anyone got any advice?

People that just know say that and for them it's true. Everyone doesn't just know and if you're one of them it's ok. I'm a lot like you, I know I like boys and I have a smaller attraction to girls. I'm not sure what that makes me, but I'm not worried about it. There's no pressing need to label yourself, ever. Just go with what feels right to you and never feel guilt or regret.

[LouBerry]

i dont hear bout bisexual girls or know of any but i guess there r.

You'll meet tons on here. We have all kinds of people. (:

[ska8er]

You'll meet tons on here. We have all kinds of people. (:

yeah i have seen. :)

[Victory]

It seems as though time is the only thing that reveals the answer to what you're asking. Some people just find out who they are quicker than others. But over time, whether it be through self reflection or experiences you go through or (most likely) both, you'll figure it out. Some people end up sort of just going with the flow and not caring what labels they or other people decide to stick on them. Others use said labels as closure to a great mystery as to who/what they are.... Until you either stop caring or finally decide for yourself, my advice is to not worry. Whatever it is your heart desires, just be happy that you posses that desire. :D

[JessZ]

Yeah, if you don't know yet, you still need some time to figure it out, and don't try to rush it, because it is not something you can rush.

[justin 13]

You need more time, don't sweat too much now labeling yourself. We are teens so that's the way it is exploring and confusing moments.