Less To Pick From

[Extreme586]

Maybe it's just a frame of mind but I feel like all the people I'm attracted to socially and physically are straight. Any gay guys that I know often tend to be really feminine (extremely actually) and just strange to me, just not type of person I can relate to other than both of us being gay. There is nothing wrong with that but that's just not my type of guy.

It just feels so much more complicated to be gay. I mean if your a straight guy or girl, and you want to flirt and find out if someone likes you, its ok and socially accepted to ask them to dance, to hang around them all the time, etc. But if your gay or whatever and you go about it the same way with a world filled with straight people, you get the strange look or uncomfortable laugh.

I just feel so alone in the world and like my needs can never be met. Thoughts?

[Croconaw]

There might be some people that are gay and they just don't feel comfortable expressing it. Either that, or they have yet to come out...

[teen.jpg]

You just made my life seem way worse by saying that because it's true.

[NikosamA98]

Well, that's totally true. Specially if you live in a sexist country, like almost every Latin American country.

[Bazinga]

Unfortunately true, even more so how people who're aged like between 14-20 maybe & when you start to accept your sexuality some people are out and others aren't. Annoying really when you can't really tell if someone is gay when straight people probably just always assume people are straight so its ok to flirt or whatever.

[Tarannosaurus]

I feel your pain I don't know a single (out) lesbian in my area. Iit would be so much easier if gay people carried around signs saying "I'M GAY" :P

[justin 13]

Happens the same to me, Im gay not out but im not a girly boy at all and all my friends r str8.

[steellord321]

Yeah, this is why people like to set their gay friends up on dates. We're a small and often invisible minority. We need the help sometimes. Other than this i mean you basically just have to suck it up and ask guys or try an online hookup...Not sure which is less risky.

[ska8er]

does everyone really kno if their friends r bi or gay? a lot im sure do have feelings for the same sex. they do not want anyone to kno. they r scared they will b bullied or lose their friends.