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CluelessGirl
September 4th, 2013, 03:17 PM
There is this guy in my school. Ive seen him around.. He is generally alone or sometime with friends. I really like him. But i dont know how to go up to him and talk. I really want to befriend him. It is his last year here so i was hoping to be friends with him before he left! Please help me! Im clueless! :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

Miserabilia
September 4th, 2013, 03:22 PM
Just talk to him, like casually? I dont think you have anything to loose.

Mynick
September 4th, 2013, 03:23 PM
I know its hard but you need to talk with him. Approach him, say hi, see what he likes and find mutual thing you both like.

Cygnus
September 4th, 2013, 03:24 PM
You know just go up to him and pronounce something, its really not that hard. All you have to do is go there and introduce yourself, maybe ask for directions to a class and in the process find some conversation topic.

Foamy
September 4th, 2013, 03:25 PM
when hes alone you just go up and say hi. nothing bad can happen when ur just sayin hi to someone alone!

CluelessGirl
September 4th, 2013, 03:25 PM
He doesnt know me! But we have exchanged looks once or twice.
I have his email id though.

Danny Phantom
September 4th, 2013, 03:28 PM
he's not gonna know or recognize your existance unless you talk to him, its really that simple.

Synyster Shadows
September 4th, 2013, 05:22 PM
Just start with a simple hi and then talk about simple little things

Luminous
September 4th, 2013, 05:24 PM
He's not going to know you until you let him. Just go up to him and say hi. Maybe tell him something like "Nice shirt" or something simple. This isn't going to go anywhere unless you make it.

The Trendy Wolf
September 4th, 2013, 05:42 PM
There is this guy in my school. Ive seen him around.. He is generally alone or sometime with friends. I really like him. But i dont know how to go up to him and talk. I really want to befriend him. It is his last year here so i was hoping to be friends with him before he left! Please help me! Im clueless! :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

I'm a guy like that who is usually alone ;_; but anyways, just talk with him casually, and if he seems uninterested, then that usually means that he's shy. :wub:

Special K
September 4th, 2013, 09:01 PM
Just say hi when he walks past next time and smile. Then the next time you see him it wont be awkward because you spoke to him before. The next time you can introduce yourself to him.

Harley Quinn
September 4th, 2013, 09:04 PM
He doesnt know me! But we have exchanged looks once or twice.
I have his email id though.

Email him if you can't talk to him in person, everyone is more willing to talk when they're online. Apart from that, accidently bump into him, have a casual conversation just say hi. You won't get anywhere saying you haven't spoken to him, just go for it.

fast8
September 4th, 2013, 09:24 PM
I say just talk to him

CluelessGirl
September 5th, 2013, 04:59 AM
I tried. I even emailed him saying Hey... but there was no reply... So I sent another message saying sorry for the previous message it was my friend. He doesn't know me at all.
What to do what to do what toooooo ddddoooooooooooooooooo??????????? :'( :'(

Inzanethingy
September 5th, 2013, 11:44 PM
You have to do it in person it works way better. Try to "accidently" bumb into him. Try something to start off a small conversation or something. If you are really interested you will have to make the move.

Gumleaf
September 6th, 2013, 02:58 AM
Email him if you can't talk to him in person, everyone is more willing to talk when they're online. Apart from that, accidently bump into him, have a casual conversation just say hi. You won't get anywhere saying you haven't spoken to him, just go for it.

I agree. Another thing I would say is that if you try to forget seeing him as a potential botfriend, but just a friend, it will make things easier. That has worked for me before in starting to talk to someone new.

Rainy
September 6th, 2013, 09:26 AM
Theres something a friend told me to do in case that I wanted to talk with someone randomly, maybe it can help you

Go up to him and say "Hey, we shared a look and I really don't want to regret not talking to you later"

CluelessGirl
September 16th, 2013, 03:15 PM
Oh well. I guess I have lost the chance. He is gone.

MisterXeeL
September 16th, 2013, 03:30 PM
There is this guy in my school. Ive seen him around.. He is generally alone or sometime with friends. I really like him. But i dont know how to go up to him and talk. I really want to befriend him. It is his last year here so i was hoping to be friends with him before he left! Please help me! Im clueless! :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

Start with simple questions about where's something or does he know where can you find your friend or did he see anyone crossing around. Be creative. He'll notice you and ask you for sure once. Just be relaxed and brave. He'll notice you if you talk with him. Those small and simple question may change your life ;).