To be Single or Taken

[Polo2847]

My best friend was talking to me about how her bf broke up with her, and how hurt she was. They were together for 4 years, we all thought they would be together for a long long time. Another friend of mine said something about "I can look at her boobs because I'm single." That kind of also made me question myself. I do want to cuddle and like hug someone I really like because I've never done that to anyone other than family members. I also don't want to hurt the person I like, as in the breaking up part, or they cheated, or something that prevents us from being in a close relationship. But I see a couple at my school, they're always having fun, always together, sharing good times. I'm just really confused. I think it's good to experience a relationship at least once, but I don't want to break down so bad after the relationship has ended. :confused::confused::what::what:

[CharlieHorse]

Relationships are wonderful and really hard.
They have their ups and downs. It's when they're not in public where their real lives are.
Those who can work things out with others will try to do just that when in a relationship. That's what makes them good and last long. That makes a happy relationship. Communication is also key.

Me personally, I don't think I should be in a relationship. I've convinced myself that I'm a bad person and so i don't deserve a loving relationship even though I want one more than anything else.
I guess I'm also afraid of the hurt that'll most likely come. I don't deal with sticky or bad situations well. Any bad thing will most likely be the end of it for me. Unfortunately, I'm just not a good candidate for relationship.


But if you think you can be a good bf, and are willing to be soul-mates with someone, go for it. :) love is the most wonderful thing in the world.

Just keep in mind that if things do go bad and you two don't work out together, then that's perfectly fine. You'll definitely DEFINITELY find someone that will fit better :).

[Jeremy08]

I see. You have high interests in having a relationship, but you are afraid of getting a heartbreak. Everyone is afraid of being hurt (except Batman). If life is one big bumper car game, and if we're all afraid of getting hurt, we would be a little more gentle with each other, wouldn't we? That's why in relationships, it's all about commitment and about being ready for it. If you find for someone that you love and she fights the same way, than nobody is getting hurt bro. But if you're afraid of getting in a relationship just because you're afraid of getting hurt all the time, you're going no where in this love life that you wish to have. When you find someone, just be honest with each other and hope there's no one break the rules and try to ram you over.

[TommyTom]

Well if u wait and find the right Girl might not break up!
But really in a relationship not everything is fun there can be quite a lot of sad stuff that u two might have to go through and Support each other with thats one of the big things about relationships always beeing there for one another but yea when u break up with someone u really really liked you get really sad but thats just normal and i would say all the good stuff that happens from beeing in a good relationship outweights that :)