am i doing something wrong!?!

[butterflyz_101]

im 18, female, never had a bf. I feel like im doing something wrong, every time I get close with a guy something always happens, like they get bored with me or give up trying with me and move on. and i dont know why!!! I'm not trying to be obnoxious or anything but a lot of guys say im hot etc, etc. and I feel like thats the only reason people ever want me, not because of me personally. Everytime i've ever come close to having a relationship with a guy they always just end up with someone else. And it's not like I'm easy (sexual wise) or anything!! I don't know what I'm doing wrong and I'm sick of it, and I feel like I'm just never going to be good enough for anyone

[Plasma]

You'll find the right guy eventually. Im 17 and Ive never had a girlfriend, or even kissed a girl. Im hoping the right one comes along soon

[Jeremy08]

Believe me, tons of people out there are waiting longer than you do. There is always someone for someone else. You will find someone that loves you the same way you love him, eventually. Sometimes it takes the right guy to see your true beauty, in and out.

I can't tell a lot of your personalities from your post but you could always try and 'do different'. It's not that I'm asking you to be someone else, just that try to focus on things beyond your shyness. Think, how do people perceive you as a person? You can always show your positive interests in things like fashion, sports, music, art and things like that. Basically, what I am implying is open up. If people fail to like you, oh well, at least you are showing how you feel or your opinions and thoughts.

Look, I've read a few quotes long ago, saying ''life is to be lived'', ''live and die on this day'' and other stuff with the same meaning. I understand that no one is better than the other person, and everyone should be seen as '' too popular to talk to''.

The way you open up here tells me that you are a great person. Live the moment, but the same time seek opportunities. Chill and be yourself.

[CharlieHorse]

You'll find the right guy eventually. Im 17 and Ive never had a girlfriend, or even kissed a girl. Im hoping the right one comes along soon

^ same with me


I know you've already heard this a hundred times, but the reason why you have is because it's true. You'll find a guy that is so perfect for you, and he'll be madly in love with you and you two'll be the cutest couple and love eachother forever. You'll find someone. It WILL be worth the wait in the end.

In the mean time. Focus on personal interests. Hobbies and stuff. Have fun! Enjoy the precious life you have :).

[TommyTom]

Dont worry too much about it you will find a guy who will love you for what you are but if a guy just tells you you are hot it COULD be that they are interested in sex and when you are not that easy to get in bed thats why they go to an easier Girl :) And thats good of you you really really really really shouldnt Change that it would just drag you down you just Need to wait for the right guy since with a relationsihp purely based on sex you might as well be friends with benefits and that seems not to be what you want :)