What do you care about or look at in a guy or girl?If you could change 3 things what?

[James Bond]

Eyes, hair, skin, teeth whatever it may be. What do you look like? What do you look at?List your top 3 for whatever gender you're attracted to. I MADE A GRIEVOUS MISTAKE, I SAID "What do you look like?" I meant to say "What do you look at?". The mistake is written in WHITE While the correction is written in RED. I left the mistake so you all know what I'm talking about.

Please don't type in Size 7 font. ~Siobhan.

Guys:
Muscles
Teeth
Bone structure (weird I know)

Girls:
Skin/teeth
Boobs/butt
Eyes
Hair (I did 4, I cheated :whoops:)


With girls, I'm 50% personality and 50% looks. Whereas guys it's all about looks, well, mostly. I like girls who are clean looking, and I love the preppy girl look. I also want them to look and appear healthy.


If you could change three things about yourself, what would it be? Don't put everything, just one thing.

Ability to build muscles easier, wayyyy easier
Perfect teeth
No disease or illness

[CharlieHorse]

I care about the girl's personality and values more than any physical characteristics she may have.

But if you're only talking about physical stuff, I think eyes are very attractive.
Soft skin is nice.
A confident, sweet smile.
I really don't care about breast size or body that much, despite me being a guy and naturally being attracted to a nice body. I love the person, not the body.
Hair really depends. But it's the same as the rest of the physical appearance.

[James Bond]

I care about the girl's personality and values more than any physical characteristics she may have.

But if you're only talking about physical stuff, I think eyes are very attractive.
Soft skin is nice.
A confident, sweet smile.
I really don't care about breast size or body that much, despite me being a guy and naturally being attracted to a nice body. I love the person, not the body.
Hair really depends. But it's the same as the rest if the physical appearance.

I care about breast size more than butt. I care about looks a lot in a girl, sad, but true. I could've probably had 2 or 3 girlfriends by now, but because looks are also important to me I haven't.

[CharlieHorse]

I care about breast size more than butt. I care about looks a lot in a girl, sad, but true. I could've probably had 2 or 3 girlfriends by now, but because looks are also important to me I haven't.

That's honestly really shallow.
Hope stuff works out for you.

[James Bond]

That's honestly really shallow.
Hope stuff works out for you.

Shallow to you, sure. Shallow to someone else, maybe not.

We all have standards. Whether we know it or not, it's a fact we have standards. My standards are significantly high, but they're not significantly low as yours seem to be. Mine might just be a bit higher than some others. Nothing wrong with that, everyone of is would want a hot girlfriend or boyfriend, but everyone of us are willing to settle for something less.

Like I have a friend who will date anyone just because she wants a boyfriend, I'm not like that. I won't just date anyone, they have to have a great personality, as well as look appealing. Of course I'd want a girlfriend who's a 10/10, but I'd be alright with a girlfriend who's a 5/10.

[Slippers]

I guess I would merely see if she was pleasant and fun to hang around with. If so and a relationship blossomed that would be awesome. I don't really have any expectations of what a girl should be like. I just try and determine if I'd like her.

Things I would change about myself. That's quite easy to be honest. I'm quite ugly so I'd change my face but other than that I'm kinda contented.

[Harley Quinn]

If we're talking physically:

1. Smile, always the smile.
2. Boobs.
3. Eyes.

Personality Wise:

1. Sense of humour.
2. Loyal.
3. Intelligence/Intuition.

We all know you don't go for solely personality with these things, if you said you care all about the personality to be honest, I think you're lying. If you're not at least attracted to said person physically, you won't get nowhere. Sure, a personality is great but there does have to be an element of looks too. I won't lie, it's 60/40 looks to personality for me most of the time.

What I'd Change about Myself:

I wouldn't change anything, I'm happy with the way I am and I don't think the amount of changes I want to happen would make any difference whatsoever to my life. I'm fabulous the way I am.

[Mynick]

Guys:
Muscles
Teeth
Hair

Girls:
Eye
Sense of humour
Intelligence/Intuition.

Change about myself:
Muscles
Change my eye colour
Perfect teeth

[TommyTom]

What i lookf at if i look at a Girl??
1.Face that means Expression aswell as her eyes and her teeth and just how cute her face can be :3
2. Her her Skin like if ist soft or not! And her Hair i like Long dark hair!
3. Her butt boobs! Not as important to me as Skin and face tbh ^^ tho i sure like some nice b-Cups or some nice butt :$
This is the order of importance :3
It is 60% Personality and 40% Looks for me i think!

Ifi would Change anything i would loose 5 kg :)
The other stuff i dont want to Change since ist a part of me and make me who i am and i dont want to Change since im already in a good relationship :3

[James Bond]

If we're talking physically:

1. Smile, always the smile.
2. Boobs.
3. Eyes.

Personality Wise:

1. Sense of humour.
2. Loyal.
3. Intelligence/Intuition.

We all know you don't go for solely personality with these things, if you said you care all about the personality to be honest, I think you're lying. If you're not at least attracted to said person physically, you won't get nowhere. Sure, a personality is great but there does have to be an element of looks too. I won't lie, it's 60/40 looks to personality for me most of the time.

What I'd Change about Myself:

I wouldn't change anything, I'm happy with the way I am and I don't think the amount of changes I want to happen would make any difference whatsoever to my life. I'm fabulous the way I am.
I meant physically. And THANK YOU! Just because I care about looks doesn't mean I'm shallow. I care about looks and personality equally, they're both important to me. I would never have an unnatractive girlfriend because how in the world could I kiss her, let alone do anything else?
Guys:
Muscles
Teeth
Hair

Girls:
Eye
Sense of humour
Intelligence/Intuition.

Change about myself:
Muscles
Change my eye colour
Perfect teeth

What i lookf at if i look at a Girl??
1.Face that means Expression aswell as her eyes and her teeth and just how cute her face can be :3
2. Her her Skin like if ist soft or not! And her Hair i like Long dark hair!
3. Her butt boobs! Not as important to me as Skin and face tbh ^^ tho i sure like some nice b-Cups or some nice butt :$
This is the order of importance :3
It is 60% Personality and 40% Looks for me i think!

Ifi would Change anything i would loose 5 kg :)
The other stuff i dont want to Change since ist a part of me and make me who i am and i dont want to Change since im already in a good relationship :3

[sieg]

physical: very good if they're shorter than me
blonde is a plus
cute feet are also very nice
personality: gotta have a sense of humor
gotta have a positive attitude
and it's always a plus to be with someone who shares your political views..
changes: faster growing beard
straight hair
better lungs

[conniption]

Physical:
-Straight teeth
-Long-ish hair. Preferably not past the shoulders.
-Good nose...? (ran out of things)

Personality:
-Intelligent
-Funny
-Independent

[Cygnus]

Personality > Looks

You asked what I would change and that is nothing, I accept people the way they are.

Then again when I look at a girl I focus on overall face, hair, and then breasts.

[teen.jpg]

Looks? Tell me where I can find;
http://distilleryimage10.s3.amazonaws.com/af2843e40bba11e3b1c522000a9f18eb_6.jpg

Personality? Tell me where I can find;
http://24.media.tumblr.com/856639118c20c9463f8c47fcafcca521/tumblr_mi75k6PWK41rcsm4to1_500.gif

[Luminous]

Physical, she should have nice teeth. Braces are fine as long as you can't see food in the teeth and they are yellow or, heavens forbid, brown. Other than that nothing else.
Besides that, I look for a sweet, kind, friendly personality.
About myself, I wish my belly didn't stick out so much. I'm fine with it being the same size but sagging a bit. I just hate looking like I'm three months pregnant.
Also, an inch or two taller? I'd love to be officially 5 feet tall :/

[teen.jpg]

Oh and if I could change anything I'd be a different person completely because why would I want to be stuck like this.

[James Bond]

Looks? Tell me where I can find;
image (http://distilleryimage10.s3.amazonaws.com/af2843e40bba11e3b1c522000a9f18eb_6.jpg)

Personality? Tell me where I can find;
image (http://24.media.tumblr.com/856639118c20c9463f8c47fcafcca521/tumblr_mi75k6PWK41rcsm4to1_500.gif)

Meh, he's not all that great looking :P Srs

http://i.imgur.com/KlXRac9l.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/pJvLonLl.jpg

But they are ! Aghhhhhhhh

Who were you before Myles?

[RCT109]

I prefer personality over anything else

[Vocabulous]

Blah blah blah personality over looks blah blah blah lets be honest, you are going to notice physical features before personality. I do value personality, but if someone is attractive, it will get my attention, and I will want to get to know said person more. If they have a terrible personality, then I know don't like that person. Anyone who says 'personality is all that matters' sits on a throne of lies. (end of rant) my only requirement for physical features is they mustn't have a horribly contagious disease, and they must be somewhat attractive.

[James Bond]

I prefer personality over anything else

Great to know. But I don't care.

Seeing you need the question repeated, What do you care about or look at in a guy or girl, list the top 3?

[teen.jpg]

Meh, he's not all that great looking :P Srs

image (http://i.imgur.com/KlXRac9l.jpg)

image (http://i.imgur.com/pJvLonLl.jpg)

But they are ! Aghhhhhhhh

Who were you before Myles?

He's nothing overwhelming, honestly. Average.

[RCT109]

Great to know. But I don't care.

Seeing you need the question repeated, What do you care about or look at in a guy or girl, list the top 3?

In a guy well the shouldnt be a gerk like you
Strong
And a gentleman

For a girl
Eyes
Smile
Personality

[James Bond]

Great to know. But I don't care.

Seeing you need the question repeated, What do you care about or look at in a guy or girl, list the top 3?

In a guy well the shouldnt be a gerk like you
Strong
And a gentleman

For a girl
Eyes
Smile
Personality

I'm not a jerk, I just don't like when people go on a thread and say something that answers none of the questions.

[RCT109]

In a guy well the shouldnt be a gerk like you
Strong
And a gentleman

For a girl
Eyes
Smile
Personality

I'm not a jerk, I just don't like when people go on a thread and say something that answers none of the questions.[/QUOTE]


I answered the question but you didnt like my answer

[LouBerry]

Well, Seth is like, my perfect man, so I'll just list a few of his traits.

He has beautiful bright blue eyes.

He has beautiful curly hair.

He has a beautiful smile that knocks me off my feet.

[ksdnfkfr]

Body
Face
teeth

Honesty
Sense of humor
Caring

[James Bond]

I'm not a jerk, I just don't like when people go on a thread and say something that answers none of the questions.


I answered the question but you didnt like my answer[/QUOTE]

Everyone judges someone based off of looks. Everyone has standards. Everyone. You're not the special exception. I highly doubt you would date some random hobo who's close to your age off the street. Or some meth junkie who has scrapes all over their skin and their teeth are rotting out of their mouth with torn hair and unkept hair.

no one is gonna like you more or less for listing what you notice first on a guy or girl. You don't get any more brownie points saying you 100% don't care about looks, cause everyone cares to a degree, and everyone looks at certain places on a guy or girl.

[Harley Quinn]

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