Need Advice Pretty Badly

[braydon123]

So, there's this girl who I work with and have worked with for the past year and a half. To me, she is one of the most beautiful people I have ever met and has this endearing personality that made me fall for her when I first met her. This year and a half has gone by and we have gotten close as friends. Just this past weekend I had her at my house to hang out and swim in my pool and then we went to this festival afterward. I sort of dealt with the fact we are just friends for the past year or so although I had other feelings. But it was just something about spending time with this girl just me and her reignited those feelings that I previously had.

She is the only thing on my mind right now and I can't seem to shake these feelings. I've tried subtly letting her know how I feel and that hasn't worked. I don't know if this is something that I should pursue as I don't want to risk our friendship but I don't want to have these sad feelings that I can't have her.

I am stuck in a dilemma where I care for her a lot but I don't know whether that is best spent as her friend or as more than that.

Please Help!

[Luminous]

If you really want her to know then you probably need to be more outright with your feelings since she's not catching your subtle hints. Ask her out on a date! Get her some flowers.
EDIT: Or chocolate. Girls love chocolate.

[BuryYourFlame]

It all depends on how she acts really. I think I'm probably a bit older than you, but one you get a bit older (for me anyway), you can notice definite signs that someone has ideas about being more than just friends. Not that you start mind reading, I think you just understand people more as the years go by.
If she is sending signs (by the sounds of it, she isn't), ask her on a date, definitely. This may not work though. Maybe because you have misinterpreted things or saw things that weren't actually happening like I used to do.
If she isn't sending any signals, it's going to make things harder. You're going to have to either wait it out, or ask her anyway, but in a calm manner and keep the relaxed (not careless) attitude if she isn't interested.

[Jeremy08]

It all depends on how she acts really. I think I'm probably a bit older than you, but one you get a bit older (for me anyway), you can notice definite signs that someone has ideas about being more than just friends. Not that you start mind reading, I think you just understand people more as the years go by.
If she is sending signs (by the sounds of it, she isn't), ask her on a date, definitely. This may not work though. Maybe because you have misinterpreted things or saw things that weren't actually happening like I used to do.
If she isn't sending any signals, it's going to make things harder. You're going to have to either wait it out, or ask her anyway, but in a calm manner and keep the relaxed (not careless) attitude if she isn't interested.

James said it. :) He's right you know. You would feel a lot better if you tell her something. Sometimes letting her know is the best idea. Keeping stuff to yourself doesn't get you anywhere and it's better to do something about it. Look for signs that she has interests about going on to the other level. If everything is in order, give it a shot. Best of luck.

[TommyTom]

U should just tell her Approach her and ask her out tell her you really like her and stuff if shes atleast a bit mature your friendship would not crumble if she says no, sure it would be a bit awkward for a week or two but it should normalize really soon again and if you have Feeling for her and she might have Feelings for you it can work out and be wonderful!

[Mynick]

You should ask her on a date and see how she reacts.