Love for the very first time

[pieman10]

After being single for about 2 months ive came to realise that im miserable because im lonely, I cant talk to people about my problems like I could with my ex so ive been thinking.
What if I just find someone else?

This admittedly comes with many problems...

First of all I need to know if im getting back into the dating game for the right reasons.
I dont think that im doing it to spite my ex but thats what I tell myself.
Im experiencing alot of teenage boy problems, after ive been introduced to sex I kinda cant get it out of my mind, this worries me. I dont want to use a girl for sex.
Am I only using her as a personal agony aunt or would I actually like her?
I'm also worried that im juat trying to recreate the relationship I had, I miss the good times I had and I want them again, is it wrong to want a relationship where I can talk, trust and love like I used to?
I reminisce too much.

Secondly is a rather big problem, im quitting the cadet group I go to as I can bear seeing them together, Im sure this is the right decision but I kinda cuts off the only social life I have.
I dont know many girls and I dont really know how to meet any new ones, any advice on this?

Lastly im worried about getting hurt again, about making the same mistakes again and hurting someone else.
I know in my last relationship I wasnt always an angel (although im certain that everyone has there bad days)
, I want to make sure I can be the best person I can be.

To sum it up I have many feelings and desires.
I want sex, I want to go out, I want to care for someone, I dont want to hurt or be hurt, I dont know how to approach girls, im lonely.

I would do anything to turn back time to the good times in my previous relationships.

God I hate puberty.

[Pittsburgh]

Move on brother

[charlize2]

Don't worry. One day you'll find the right person and everything will be fine. I like your attitude that you want to be the best person you can - it's very important. I'm sure you'll be really happy soon.

[TommyTom]

Wait until you find the right Person if u just try your hardest to get ANY relationship it will probably suck and will only be for the sex if thats fine with u which it seems is not the case then do that but if u want a deep understanding of each other real carin for the Person and love in ur relationship id say wait till you find the right Girl dont force it it will happen :)

[justin 13]

Dude U will find the right person.

[pieman10]

How can I find the right person if I dont go out?
Im not exactly socially experienced, so how do I how out and meet people?

[charlize2]

People are everywhere, you don't have to do anything special to meet someone. When you see an attractive girl on the street or in a shop, just say hello. Most girls would like it. If you're shy, perhaps meeting people in the Internet would be better.

[Saint of Sinners]

There's no reason to rush things. Just take your time. With a little searching, i'm sure you'll find somebody :). Good luck!