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reverence
September 2nd, 2013, 07:21 PM
Right now I have been ignoring my boyfriend for a few weeks. I don't know what to do because with him, I felt really isolated from friends. More like he didn't like me going anywhere with my friends. He gets jealous easily but I like him. Right now, I haven't been really talking to my friends either because I'm afraid the conversation won't continue and other fears like they will hate me. It's pretty stupid but then I feel bad for even talking to friends in the past because of my bf. I don't know what to do and school is starting soon. I felt like I lost everyone. I don't know what my question is but I just wanted to talk to someone.

Camazotz
September 2nd, 2013, 07:52 PM
Don't let him control your life- jealousy can be normal, but not to the extent that you can't have your own friends. If he can't handle that, he's really not worth your time.

Gumleaf
September 3rd, 2013, 02:27 AM
That is an interesting situation. But you can't let any friend or boyfriend control your life. You are your own person and should have the trust of these people to spend time with all of the them whenever you want. I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling and if he has a problem with it, then ask him whether he trusts you etc. If he still doesn't respond in a positive way, you may need to consider breaking up with him, because that's not a healthy relationship to be in.

Special K
September 3rd, 2013, 08:21 AM
You need some space because he is cramping you that. That is normal.