Going to homecoming

[James Bond]

So I've never gone to a dance with another girl and I really want to make this senior year of hs different. I just don't know how this whole thing would go. I don't have a car, so I have no idea how both of us would get to the dance.

Oh, and I'd keep it a secret from my parents. Idk why I'm like this. But I wouldn't want my parents to know, so I'd just say I'm going to the dance with my friends when in reality I wouldn't.

So how would I ask a girl out when I'm so self conscience of how I look? What would I do if I don't have a car?

[megandiane]

you could carpool with other people, it's a lot more fun that way sometimes because you won't have the pressure of being alone with her and thinking of ways to impress, which is what normally happens.
keeping it a secret from your parents is fine just be warying that in today's society, pictures are likely to go online and they could theoretically find out that way, but i can totally understand that you wouldn't want them all over your date.
as for asking a girl out? just ask, the absolute worst thing is that she can say no, and even then it can be for a hundred different reasons that have nothing to do with you at all. i know personally that if a guy had the confidence to go up to me and ask me out, complimented me, unless they were my worst enemy i'd go with them. However, if the big problem happens and the girl that you ask says no, why not see if she wants to go as friends? it can be as fun and often doesn't give the pressures that going on a date would.
i didn't go to my final dance with anyone but with friends and there we met up with other people and i had my dances with a guy i'd been interested in for a while, it was all about being able to relax and not freak out.
Confidence is key, and just remember that in the end, you make the experience and what you do defines whether you have fun or not.
Hope I helped, if not, then oh well!

[Special K]

Just close your eyes and go for it. You have zero chance if you don't ask.