Mayday. Need help to get over this girl.

[JasonzZ]

Right, so there's this girl and we broke up few weeks ago becuz she cheated on me, but she doesn't want me to break up with her. I thought that once a cheater, always a cheater so I did what needed done. She cried and we eventually broke up. I miss her a lot and the pain is unbearable but idk what to do.

The thing is, she keeps making me hurt after all this. Whenever she feels my presence, she flirts with the other guy like there's no tomorrow. You know, cuddling, cross legs and all that. She holds his hand whenever I look so that I notice that she's moving on fine without me. Whenever her friends ask about me, (also in my presence) she would go like, 'who we talkin bout?' and 'idk who dat f***er is', all that stuff. The new boyfriend also lives nearby and he too thinks that i am a threat to their new relationship. He often tell this girl that he doesnt want her to see me again. Whenever her friends talk bout this new boyfriend, she took the chance to talk out loud, telling how happy she is now without me. The act of the new boyfriend who walks her to her front door after every class hurts me too because that is what i usually do and he is just being a copy cat so that i get jealous and so that i realize that he is a better 'replacement'.

I survived the break up, but the show she keeps putting on recently is breaking me apart. How can I get over her? Me and the girl are course mates actually so it's hard to literally stay away.

[Mynick]

It's hard but try to avoid her. Find new friends, go out with them, meet other girls. She's being a bitch, avoid her, if you stay near her you are hurting yourself :(

[Living For Love]

What a b****! She cheated on you, you broke up with her and in revenge, she's now teasing you that horrible way. I suggest you get another girlfriend ASAP and do the same to her, or just keep with your friends and ignore them. She'll eventually get tired and stop with all that nonsense.

Or you could always prove yourself far, far superior and talk with them. Tell her that she was the one who cheated on you and you don't understand why is she doing this to you. She'll probably say something like "We all make mistakes", or "I tried to save our relationship, you're the one who broke up with me", and you just need to tell her to leave you alone and that, now that you're separated, she had the chance to find someone she loves even more than she loved you. You can also talk to the boy, face to face, like two civilized boys you are, and tell him you're happy that she got another boyfriend and to take good care of her for you. If you feel comfortable enough, tell both that whenever they need something, they can count on you.

Whatever you're decision is, and if they continue acting like two idiots, make sure you stay away from those two, they don't deserve you friendship.

[PinkFloyd]

She's the one who started this! I'm not usually one to point fingers, but this is all her fault.

How can her new boyfriend think you're a threat? You were the one who broke up with her for a great reason at that...

My advice is to just find new people to hang out with and forget about her.

[Special K]

Why don't you flirt with other girls and see where it goes? Make her a little jealous.

[Hank Hill]

Instead of trying to immediately get with another girl and act all flirty/lovey dovey whatever with her in front of the girl who is doing this to you like some people have said here, you should consider doing the MATURE thing and walking away from those situations.

I would not recommend trying to make her jealous or piss her off as that could just come back to bite you in the ass in the future. Karma, dude.

Instead, make the best of your situation, move on and try to find new friends, a new hobby, just something NEW to spend your time doing and get your mind off of her.

However I do think that what she did qualifies her to be a world-class bitch, don't get me wrong.

Be a man about it.

[EddietheZombie]

I dont want to say anything because ill get in trouble.... just imagine every curse word imaginable thrown her way and you might know what i was going to say.... Just get over her and find someone else.

And Hank, your pictures are funny as hell!

[justin 13]

WOw dude its hard to say but If I were you I would try to find a new GF.