Found out from someone that the girl I like likes someone else. What do I do?

[clueless_one]

I asked a girl who knows the girl I like to find out who she likes (they are not good friends). She came back to me and told me that the girl I like likes someone else, later she told me she is going out with the guy she likes. Yet after finding this out, the girl I like still shows signs of liking me more than friends.

I had asked the girl who knows the girl I like to tell the girl I like that I like her. Suddenly out of the blue a guy in class which the girl I like is also in asked me if I like the girl I like. I said yes and the girl I like was smiling whenever she looked/stared at me.

The day after she found out I like her, the girl I like and her friends were staring at me, the girl I like also stares at me from a distance.

In class, it seems the girl I like hovers around me a lot. One time she sat down with her shoulders facing me while talking to her guy friends in class and was stretching her hands towards me.

She crosses her legs and her top leg faces me. She also stretches her leg towards me.

The teacher was giving back exams and she stood next to me (where the teacher was giving back the exams). She stood in the one spot for 2-3 minutes before saying "Why am I standing?" before moving back to her seat.

When she was walking around, she brushed passed me or walked close to me when going to her desk.

When I entered class, she seemed to get a little more restless and was moving around more in the group activities (she was in another group and was looking/glancing at me while looking at the teacher)

Why is she showing me signs of liking me more than friends if yet she likes someone else or is going out with another guy?
Could the girl I asked to find out about the girl I like be lying?
Could the girl I like actually be lying about liking someone else because she doesn't want to pass gossip around the school about her liking me?
What should I do?

[teen.jpg]

I honestly think you should move on by now. You've been after the same girl for months and have nothing to show for that. You're aware of her liking someone else, so respect that.

[kylem1229]

Here's the thing, asking another girl to tell her that you like her? Thats a wrong doing right there. You have to tell her yourself, you cant have someone else do it. You have to go tell her, and see what she says. Thats pretty much the only way to find out.

[clueless_one]

Here's the thing, asking another girl to tell her that you like her? Thats a wrong doing right there. You have to tell her yourself, you cant have someone else do it. You have to go tell her, and see what she says. Thats pretty much the only way to find out.

The girl I like now knows I like her from the girl I told. The only thing is I was told by this girl that the girl I like likes someone else and she is going. Out with another guy. (Was told it was from the girl I like)

When she knew I like her she would have said she likes someone else or even told me she likes me back. She didn't say anything to me but after finding out I like her (from a guy in class) she just smiled and hovers around me a lot more. She's not told me if she likes someone else or likes me back.

[Cygnus]

Seriously either you move on or ASK HER OUT ALREADY, you are showing insecurity and doubtfulness, if there is another guy who likes her he won't wait for you to ask her out, he will do it without a doubt. Ask her out, the worst that can happen is her saying no and after that you move on. You have made like 20 threads here that just go round and round.

[Suave]

This happened with a good friend recently. 1 she could be toying with you, or she really likes and wants to be more than friends. It doesn't seem like she's trying friend zone you. My friend had the same thing happen when the girl he liked what going out with someone else. Even I could tell she liked him more the the guy was going out with. He just kept talking to her and in less than a month they were going out.

[Poisonberry]

Could the girl I asked to find out about the girl I like be lying? Yes

Could the girl I like actually be lying about liking someone else because she doesn't want to pass gossip around the school about her liking me? Yes

What should I do? Get help for your neurosis or see if the Disney Channel is hiring writers.

[Croconaw]

Ask her already. It really is not that difficult.

[Special K]

You got two choices. Wait it out or find another girl.

[clueless_one]

Today the girl I like has been staring/looking at me when talking to other guys in class. Before the lesson started, she looked at me and gave a slight smile.

I want to ask her out, the only thing avoiding me was I had asked the girl who knows the girl I like who told me she likes someone else and when I asked her to tell her I like her she said she is going out with someone else.

[Special K]

Today the girl I like has been staring/looking at me when talking to other guys in class. Before the lesson started, she looked at me and gave a slight smile.

I want to ask her out, the only thing avoiding me was I had asked the girl who knows the girl I like who told me she likes someone else and when I asked her to tell her I like her she said she is going out with someone else.


That means she likes you. Probably trying to make you jealous to go talk to her.

[teen.jpg]

You're idea of whether she likes you or not flips every 5 minutes. You. Are. Not. In. Middle. School. Either ask her out or move on.

[Cygnus]

Today the girl I like has been staring/looking at me when talking to other guys in class. Before the lesson started, she looked at me and gave a slight smile.

I want to ask her out, the only thing avoiding me was I had asked the girl who knows the girl I like who told me she likes someone else and when I asked her to tell her I like her she said she is going out with someone else.

Ask her out, do something, you can't just stand there and expect things to go well. Ask her out or forget it forever.

[Poisonberry]

You're idea of whether she likes you or not flips every 5 minutes. You. Are. Not. In. Middle. School. Either ask her out or move on.

This.