starting to hate my best friend

[smithers]

basically i was away all summer and i came back and my best friend doesnt really want to be my friend any more
it kinda started this way before i left
before he met me he had no friends at all like he told me he would go out like once a month and then for like 2 years we were best freinds like those friends that peple knew as a pair
and basically i had other friends and i would bring him to those parties but he got knew friends and he wouldnt let me coem to their parties and now he only hangs out with them
i text him to hang out and he just doesnt respond
like i know he checks his phone so he clearly just ignores me
what should i do
i want to go back to old times when we were the duo

[Fraser]

Seems like he got popular and found 'more interesting' friends than you. Sometimes this just happens, and people get bored of their old friends. There's not really much you can do to force them to be interested in you. Just be yourself and let it play out.

[conniption]

It sounds like he doesn't want to hang out with you anymore. Maybe you should just let him be and get a real friend.

[fast8]

Yea better off going to him an talk tp him see what's up if u want to keep him as a friend

[LouBerry]

I'm sorry that you're going through that. But, that's going to happen. When I started high school a few years ago, one of my teachers told our class that if you had one real friend, you were lucky. And I thought they was rubbish, because I had a ton. For sure I had four best friends that would always be there for me. Out of those four, I still talk sometimes with one of them.

It's a part of growing up. The older you get, the more things start getting in the way of friendships. The thing is, when people start edging you out of their lives, even though it hurts, don't fight it too hard. People do grow apart, and it just causes unnecessary pain on your end the longer you string it out.

[Camazotz]

It's a part of growing up. The older you get, the more things start getting in the way of friendships. The thing is, when people start edging you out of their lives, even though it hurts, don't fight it too hard. People do grow apart, and it just causes unnecessary pain on your end the longer you string it out.

This times 10. It sucks that you had to lose a friend, but that's how friendships usually end, and that's just an inevitable truth.

[TheLivingLie]

talk to him, let him know your feelings, if he says go away, he isn't a true friend, why would u want to be friends with a phony...

[Ethan15]

Friends like these are ignorant, as soon as they find more interesting people they ditch you and move on, not worth your time you should just completely forget about him. And beleive me people notice when you have given up on them. One thing I think you sould do if he doe try coming back to you don't get involved with him.

[Special K]

That happens alot. You guys just aren't friends anymore. It's sad but it's like a breakup.

[Mariebme]

Ive seen this happen - more common than you think. People can just be really rotten sometimes, and it can be anyone. You just have to move on.

[teen.jpg]

Don't take it personally, it happens. It's not his fault, it doesn't make him a bad person. People just grow apart.

... Something I could say to 99% of the people from my middle school ...

[1_21Guns]

This has happened to me and it's awful, but like others said sometimes people drift apart, it's unfortunately a fact of life in the end. Look back on the memories fondly not with sadness and try to move on :)

[JamesSuperBoy]

It happens for lots of reasons - you were aways so he had loads of time with others.

Is there an age gap? maybe he is just happier with guys is own age -

[justin 13]

This happened to me too, Its hard to text and not getting any reply back. I chased him in school and he told me nah Keith we are fine, but he never was really back as a close friend..I got other friends tho. I think he knew I'm gay but I never told him.

[oceandude33a]

hey bud, listen ive been where youve been, not once but twice. and it flat out sucks. but the only thing you can do it try to talk about it with him and if that dosent work then theres nothing else more. hell realize one day that he screwed up, but a friendship works two way. hope to have helped

[NeuroTiger]

It's hard but you have to keep calm. That's just an obstacle in life. just go across it and construct your future; with or without your friends.
Maybe he's meant just to be in an 'episode' of your life.
Be strong.

[sqishy]

Be yourself when you see him and hope for the best, but many friendships tend to end this way.

[Cygnus]

People change, my best friend all through primary school became a douche a few years after, there are plenty more people out there.