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SmokyChica
September 1st, 2013, 09:42 AM
I really want to get back together with my ex. Is that impossible, too awkward to try? Does anyone have any experience with this? In case it means anything, he is the one who broke up with me.

Mynick
September 1st, 2013, 10:00 AM
If he's the one who broke up it may be impossible. You need to start talking with him again, get closer. See if he still has feelings for you.

kylem1229
September 1st, 2013, 11:06 AM
You can try talking to him, chance are it might not happen since hes the one who broke up with you, which usually means he didnt care for you.

Cygnus
September 1st, 2013, 11:59 AM
Usually couples that break up never get back, what was the reason for him to break up with you? You just have to re-gain his trust and friendship slowly, but you might never get back with him, as mentioned before.

SmokyChica
September 1st, 2013, 01:21 PM
When we broke up, he said it wasn't because he stopped liking me. I never got the honest reason, but he said he still liked me.

Gumleaf
September 2nd, 2013, 12:35 AM
When we broke up, he said it wasn't because he stopped liking me. I never got the honest reason, but he said he still liked me.

So perhaps he still likes you now? There is no harm in trying to get back with him as long as you prepare yourself emotionally for the possibility he doesn't want to get back with you. I say talk to him and let him know you're still interested and see what he says. You won't know if you don't try.

conniption
September 2nd, 2013, 12:41 AM
I broke up with my boyfriend, got back together, but broke up again a week later. Our relationship was pretty shitty to begin with, so it was only a matter of time. If you guys are still into eachother and are able to resolve whatever it was that broke you guys up in the first place then it should work out well.