i don't know what I am feeling.

[joshcac]

I've been dating a girl for about 2 years and I don't know what I am feeling. I do love her, but less than I did in the beginning of the relationship. I only see her on the weekends bc school stuff and I feel like she loves me more than I love her.

Like, sometimes I go out with her just to keep the relationship and sometimes I just don't feel good doing it. But when I think about her, I consider her my safe place, where I can go everytime I feel bad.

Do you guys think it is just a phase? What should i do?

Thanks and sorry if my english isn't good :)

[Living For Love]

From what you described, you're notin lovewith her as a potential girlfriend, but as a really close friend. You don't need to tell her anything now, just let things take its natural course, but if she eventually starts approaching you too much, and you don't feel the same way, you need to make her understand that you only want to be her friend, nothing more. Be extremely sensible, though, or you may lose her trust.

[Mynick]

Yeah, i dont think you are in love with her. Maybe close friends maybe a crush but not in love.
I think you should talk with her and explain her what you feel. Dont give her hope if you dont really love her.

[Gumleaf]

It's quite common for people to fall out of love with their bf/gf. I suspect this is what's happened to you. The thing is, it's not fair to her to continue in the relationship, even if she is in love with you, if your heart isn't in it. I would think about it, and if you still feel the same way then perhaps end the relationship.