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RobotGlitterPrincess
August 31st, 2013, 03:07 PM
Ok well this is a really long story. So here we go. There was this guy, this guy named dean <3. that i really liked and one day he asked for my number so we started texting regularly and then on day long ago he would start calling me babe and such and we would send flirty text messages. And well i really liked him and even tho he never asked me out he slowly became a huge part of my day, he made feel better when i was sad and everything. but my friend Ashley was his ex and when me and her got home from being at bad camp for a week she started dating dean. and well needless to say he didn't talk to me much after that. and this was 2 months ago and we haven't talked sense... i miss him soooo much. I have barley kept myself from reading our old texts and i am always reminded of what he was to me... whats wrong with me? What should i do?

LouBerry
August 31st, 2013, 03:11 PM
Just talk to him about it. And the girl, if you two are friends, she'd probably understand you two having a platonic relationship.

RobotGlitterPrincess
August 31st, 2013, 03:17 PM
I told her that it was fine... :( cause she always been there for me but now she hasent been being supportive at all

i told her it was fine when they first started dating 2 months ago. cause she was always there for me but has hasent been suportive at all sence they started dating

LouBerry
August 31st, 2013, 03:18 PM
i told her it was fine when they first started dating 2 months ago. cause she was always there for me but has hasent been suportive at all sence they started dating

So she knew how you felt about him?

RobotGlitterPrincess
August 31st, 2013, 03:25 PM
Ya, she knew

Living For Love
August 31st, 2013, 04:12 PM
Ya, she knew

What a friend! Why did she betrayed you that way? She knew you were inetersted in him and she still dates Dean? It makes no sense. Anyway, talk to the guy and see if he has any interest on you. And have a serious conversation with that Ashley...

RobotGlitterPrincess
August 31st, 2013, 08:43 PM
Well i talked to dean and he told me to jus move on :( how does he expect me to do that :'(

Living For Love
September 1st, 2013, 05:54 AM
Well i talked to dean and he told me to jus move on :( how does he expect me to do that :'(

Well, he's more interested in Ashley than in you. I suggest you talk with her and back off for a while. It's also possible that Ashley didn't like the fact that you get involved with her ex-boyfriend, ask her that, but if you and Dean were getting along, I don't see why he came back to her. They probably still loved eachother after they broke up, so I'm afraid but there's really nothing more you can do.

RobotGlitterPrincess
September 1st, 2013, 05:06 PM
Ya :(

Camazotz
September 1st, 2013, 10:43 PM
Well i talked to dean and he told me to jus move on :( how does he expect me to do that :'(

Unfortunately, there's your answer. I know it hurts now, but there will be plenty of guys that will care for you. It might be hard, but you just have to forget about him; distract yourself by doing tons of other things.