trust

[kylem]

is it ever possible to trust girls again after dating one and she cheated on me? I want to date again but I don't know if I can actually trust a girl after what happened with my ex. why do girls cheat anyways?

[Mynick]

Not all girls are the same. Ok one cheated one you but that doesn't mean the next one will.
It's fine to trust them.
Well ask your self why would you cheat on someone? Maybe you dont like her anymore, maybe the relationship is boring that kind of stuff. Well they think in the same away, unfortunately it happens but it doesnt mean it will.

[kylem1229]

Of course you can trust them. Everyone is different, nobodys the same.

As for cheating on you, they are either "into that stuff", like cheating on people, or are bored/dont like you and dont feel like telling you about it.

[James Bond]

To be honest, it's wrong to think that all girls are going to cheat on you. Not all girls are like that, chances are, you won't have to experience that ever again.

[riverboy]

You will meet another girl and find out that you can tell her anything and do anything and not feel stupid. Believe me you will trust another girl and they are not all like your x.

[Meganium]

If you think like that, it'll be really hard to trust anyone in your life in the future. It's fine to trust another girl when you move on.

[Slippers]

is it ever possible to trust girls again after dating one and she cheated on me? I want to date again but I don't know if I can actually trust a girl after what happened with my ex. why do girls cheat anyways?

I'll reiterate many of the sentiments already posted that many girls don't cheat on guys. It's also prudent to acknowledge that some do. You clearly understand this and thus the problem is within you - can you re-learn how to trust again? The answer is yes of course you can! But the only way you will is by taking the first step and asking a girl on a date.

[ksdnfkfr]

Guys cheat too, so lets not pin this on girls. People cheat because they are selfish and shallow. Being cheated on hurts bad and it's hard to feel like you can trust anyone ever again. Give yourself time to get over it. The right girl will enter your life at the right time.

[Gumleaf]

I got back with a girlfriend after she cheated, it was about a year later when we got back together. It is possible to forgive, but then you're basically building trust again from scratch and that can and will take time. I'm not sure why girls cheat, maybe a girl who has cheated can answer that? Before you take a girl back though you need some sort of reassurnce that she won't cheat again, so keeping the lines of communication open is important too.