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IAmNumberZero
August 31st, 2013, 09:49 AM
Ok so here's the deal. There is this girl in my first period who I have a major crush on. It started in junior year, and hasn't gone away. She is just so perfect, inside and out, and I want to get to know her and ask her out so badly. If I was a guy, I would have already. But I'm not so..
My one friend thinks she might be queer, and he's never been wrong before. And she seems very tolerant of the LGBTQ community, so I don't think she'd ruin my life if she found out I like her. I mean, she catches me staring a lot but doesn't treat me like a freak. We don't talk a lot, but she laughs at my jokes and is pretty kind to me. Any advice?

Mynick
August 31st, 2013, 11:02 AM
Talk with her, and bring the LGBTQ topic out. Listen what she says and what's her opinion on the subject. Then you can do something.
If she is lesbian, go for it. Start being closer to her and talk more, find out what she likes.

IAmNumberZero
September 24th, 2013, 10:13 AM
Thanks for replying! But she transferred out of my class. I am still mad into her, but have no idea how to proceed. If worst comes to worst, I'm going to give her a note on the last day before graduation, explaining how I feel.

ImCoolBeans
September 24th, 2013, 10:44 AM
I've always found that you never get what you don't pursue. If you feel so strongly about her and she's accepting of the LGBTQ community then why not befriend her first, and then go from there? I think you will be unhappy if you wait until the last chance to say something. It might be a little risky but maybe try forming a bond with her before you tell her, inquire about her feelings about the LGBTQ community, you could always come out to her also and see how she reacts to that. All of these are just suggestions, do what you feel comfortable with doing; but don't be afraid to push your comfort zone a bit.

highschool
October 6th, 2013, 08:21 PM
if she seems tolerant of the LGBTQ community then totally go for it! haha I was actually once hit on by a lesbian for the same reasons, and I just declined and told her I was flattered but i'm straight. If she's tolerant like I am, she won't make a big deal out of it