Bi Curious

[ska8er]

im confused. i dont feel like i am bi tho i do look at other guys cause i admire them. i am curious of what it would be like to experiment with an older guy from school. there is a 16 yr old football player that wants to mess with me. he has come out and asked me. i want to but im not sure if i should. i know him from the locker room. i caught him and one of his team mates kissing and rubbing each other after football pratice showers. :eek: they did not c me. i got really horny. i dont think jocks r all they say.:what: idk lol im a jock.

[Josh from SoCal]

if you are curious and he is interested, then go for it. tell him you dont know if you are bi or not but want to try some stuff to see what its like. that way he knows you are experimenting.

the trick is to find someone you can experiment with and you already have that part handled.

[Living For Love]

Only do it if you feel comfortable with it. You're not bi because you're curious and want to experiment with other guys.

[ksdnfkfr]

I don't know how much older and experienced the other guys is, so I'll say to be careful and not let him take advantage of you. I've read lots of places that same sex experimenting does not determine your sexual orientation.

[riverboy]

Only do what you are comfortable in doing. Set down boundaries that will not be crosses if you don't want to do certin things. Is the guy nice to people or want to use you?

[Laquifa]

if you are curious and he is interested, then go for it. tell him you dont know if you are bi or not but want to try some stuff to see what its like. that way he knows you are experimenting.

the trick is to find someone you can experiment with and you already have that part handled.

Josh has this part handled. That's the best advice I can see..

[ska8er]

Only do what you are comfortable in doing. Set down boundaries that will not be crosses if you don't want to do certin things. Is the guy nice to people or want to use you?

hes nice. i know him from sports. i have limits. i wonder how many other team mates of his have experimented.

[Unsubscribed]

Yeah if only there was a guy I could experiment with...

[Josh from SoCal]

Yeah if only there was a guy I could experiment with...

they are out there. trust me. if you were around here.... lol

you'll find someone.

[Unsubscribed]

they are out there. trust me. if you were around here.... lol

you'll find someone.

Se I'm in ga so not many down here....sadly

[Josh from SoCal]

maybe youre not far enough south. lol

[Unsubscribed]

Haha

[justin 13]

Dude I would try but be careful if he just wants to take advantage of you. I had that experience before and went totally wrong. I'm gay and I like older boys but sometimes older guys wants things that guys our age are not ready to do.

[Jamie_P]

If you want to, and only as long as you feel comfortable with it, then you can go ahead with it. However just be careful as you are still very young, so don't let him feel like he can take advantage of you. Also, don't let thing go sexually too far, and don't do anything you think you might regret.

[GeorgeBoy]

You can try it ... if i were you i will do it

[Soldier212]

I would say go for it if u r truly curious but don't do it if u might have any doubt in ur mind.

[nklarke]

In your case I would try to find someone of your same age that also want to try for first time as you. The 16 years old guy seems to be very experimented.

[Rexster]

i can't be a lot of help. i would like to think i'd go for it. but if it actually happened? i'd probably chicken out. good luck either way.

[Luminous]

Only do it if you're comfortable with it.

[ugaboy]

Andrew - I have read a lot of your other posts, and think you are really mature for your age. I think you can handle it, as long as you know exactly how far you are willing to go. As he is 16 and your are 13, I would guess he is bigger - physically. As long as you are sure he would not force you to do something you arent ready for - I say go for it, but with caution. You seem really smart, so I think you will handle it well.

[YOUR BROTHER]

maybe try it you might be surprised you like it but only if you comfortable

[jcs5943]

go for it you can stop at any time if you decide you don't like it

[Cece14]

I would wait till your older