question on incest.

[hunter.johns98]

well here it goes. I'm very active with masturbation and i have a very certain kinks that gets me hard and that is incest. right now i keep it purely fantasy i haven't spoken to my family of this. but i feel temptations to peep on my sisters or my cousin. I'm really scared that my family will find out and im not sure what to do. will i grow out of it? will i be like this forever?

[honeybear]

I think as long as people can tell the difference between fantasy and reality and not act on things they may not have a good feeling about I wouldn't worry about it

[punker_25]

its natural to peep i think. i did it on female cousins but grew out of it later

[justin 13]

Dude, Is totally wrong having these fantasies.

[SkootuGurl]

It's probably pretty normal to want to sneak a peek, but you really should respect their privacy

[stoneflowe96]

You should respect privacy. Is it incest in the usa to have relationship with your cousin? Not that I would want one but in Germany it is not. There only count direct lines .

[eggs2006]

It is a normal hormone thing I think. You will grow out of it. Think about girls that are not in your family to take your mind off it. Don't peep. You can get in big trouble.

[Luminous]

Having a fantasy is okay, it's your hormones talking. But you should be smart enough to know that that fantasy isn't real life, and imho it's not right to have sex or love a sibling or relative(other than family love).

[teen.jpg]

Don't. Just ... don't.

[Pittsburgh]

I have done this and it went alot further. Be careful what you wish for.

[Fraser]

Well, what people do in their private time is no one else's business. Obviously, sexually abusing your family members is definitely wrong - but if both parties agree to it, and they take measures to prevent consequences, it is no one else's business. having this fantasies is normal, most likely a phase and you will grow out of it.

[Mariebme]

Just keep fantasy and reality separate. Peeping isn't advisable imo but thinking about it isn't unusual I think. A lot of ppl are turned on by "naughty" things :P

[Miri]

Thinking about it and doing it are two completely different things.

Actually doing it and getting caught could ruin your relationship with them, not to mention get you into a lot of trouble.

[jtb124680]

I think the fantasy is fairly normal- I think about it as well. But you don't want to get involved...

[johnsmith1]

Fantasies are quite normal and a good idea to keep private. Sex with a brother or sister is incest just about anywhere. Cousins are OK (in the UK anyway) legally, but there is still a little complicated with distant relatives being involved.

[James Bond]

Dude, Is totally wrong having these fantasies.

Don't. Just ... don't.

Who do you think you are to say that incest is wrong!? If both parties are alright, you have no right to judge.


That's what it was like for LGBT, for hundreds of years, LGBT members were judged saying its wrong, and they still are today. You guys (and all others who are like this) are hypocrites for saying this. You can't just say "Being gay, bi, or straight is ok. But incest and polygamy is totally wrong". Society STILL says that LGBT members are wrong. You're encouraging bigotry, to be honest with you.

If being gay, lesbian, or bi is ok. Then incest and polygamy is ok, as long as both parties agree to it and are in love, there should be nothing stopping it.


In particular, Myles, you have persecuted those who don't believe in homosexual rights, yet you turn around and persecute other people's beliefs (that being incest). I've seen some threads of you chewing out other members for saying homosexuality is wrong. You're just as wrong as Christians who persecute LGBTers. So there is absolutely no difference between those judgmental Christians and you, because both of you (you and SOME christians) are bigots. Because you're denying love between two consenting parties, what goes on in their bedroom (have it be two men, or a brother and sister) is NONE of your damn business.

[Southside]

Fantasies are OK I guess though acting on it is totally taboo in my opinion.

[teen.jpg]

Who do you think you are to say that incest is wrong!? If both parties are alright, you have no right to judge.


That's what it was like for LGBT, for hundreds of years, LGBT members were judged saying its wrong, and they still are today. You guys (and all others who are like this) are hypocrites for saying this. You can't just say "Being gay, bi, or straight is ok. But incest and polygamy is totally wrong". Society STILL says that LGBT members are wrong. You're encouraging bigotry, to be honest with you.

If being gay, lesbian, or bi is ok. Then incest and polygamy is ok, as long as both parties agree to it and are in love, there should be nothing stopping it.


In particular, Myles, you have persecuted those who don't believe in homosexual rights, yet you turn around and persecute other people's beliefs (that being incest). I've seen some threads of you chewing out other members for saying homosexuality is wrong. You're just as wrong as Christians who persecute LGBTers. So there is absolutely no difference between those judgmental Christians and you, because both of you (you and SOME christians) are bigots. Because you're denying love between two consenting parties, what goes on in their bedroom (have it be two men, or a brother and sister) is NONE of your damn business.

I said three words, what you're saying is irrelevant. I didn't say (or mean) that incest was wrong, I meant don't PEEP on his sister/cousins. Which is wrong.

Big difference.

[honeybear]

You should respect privacy. Is it incest in the usa to have relationship with your cousin? Not that I would want one but in Germany it is not. There only count direct lines .

I'm not sure...I think first cousin's it is illegal but I've heard that anything past that is ok (like second cousins or something) *shrug*

[Scottish-Boy]

Keep it in your head, could get bad if you act on it

[emilysut]

you should talk to my brother, he tries to spy on me all the time. I dont mind, i find it flattering. but naughty things turn me on.

[kitten13]

me and my brother played doc. when we was young. is that incest. or incest when you know what your doing. like to know post to me plzz.

kim

[Sandra Main]

me and my brother played doc. when we was young. is that incest. or incest when you know what your doing. like to know post to me plzz.

kim

Playing doctors is like exploring each others body.
Like child's play in my view.
Incest is when you have sexual contact with your brother
For example oral or intercourse.
Someone please correct if I'm wrong.

[darthearth]

Well, what people do in their private time is no one else's business. Obviously, sexually abusing your family members is definitely wrong - but if both parties agree to it, and they take measures to prevent consequences, it is no one else's business. having this fantasies is normal, most likely a phase and you will grow out of it.

I often think of ancient societies that practiced what we now call "incest". I think it's all culture and I agree with this quote ^^^.

Yes there is usually some natural aversion to doing stuff with siblings but I know from personal experience one can get past that pretty easily if one asks themselves why one thinks it's "gross", like challenging oneself to give an objective reason. As soon as I asked the question and I couldn't come up with an objective reason my aversion left me immediately. But just because there is no longer an "icky" feeling when I think of doing things like oral with my brother doesn't necessarily mean I'm really "wanting" to do it.

[deregisterme]

me and my brother played doc. when we was young. is that incest. or incest when you know what your doing. like to know post to me plzz.

kim

It's only incest when it starts getting sexual in nature. Sounds like you may have been having innocent fun
any questions PM me

[CabbageMedul]

Personally, if you were to say; have sex with your sister or cousin, I would just shrug and go "So what?".

It's natural to have these feelings if you ask me. Honestly, if I had a sister I think we would be likely to "do stuff" together.

Just as how I have a very attractive niece, she's a turn on alright. Worst of all is, she knows it.

Anyway, you should respect your siblings' privacy. But like I always say, anything's legal/allowed as long as nobody finds out!

[PianoJane]

I've been giving my brother handjobs for a few months or so. I gave my first blowjob to a friend of his, whilst he was in the room. And a few days ago I started giving him blowjobs.

So incest happens and, in my opinion, it's very hot. I know a lot of people on here share that view. :)

[Hermes]

I think in fantasy the forbidden can sometimes seem more exciting than that which is allowed. As long as it stays fantasy that isn't a problem in itself but it would be wise to make sure that your sexual fantasies also include things you might actually want to do in practice, would be legal to do and that you would be able to find someone else who would want to do them with you.

[Seth Green]

Well honestly you can't control fantasies. But I personally think you REALLY should not act on this. But fantasizing is fine, the point of fantasizing is to escape reality. But you really should remember the difference between fantasy and reality...

[JustKristen]

i think its hot ;)

[joshmz]

We all have different preferences and its fine but just keep it to yourself

[Bteenboi]

I think it's normal to want to peek, I've looked at my cousins nude. And I rubbed my cousins breast. Curiosity!!!

[lilmisslucylee]

I've been giving my brother handjobs for a few months or so. I gave my first blowjob to a friend of his, whilst he was in the room. And a few days ago I started giving him blowjobs.

So incest happens and, in my opinion, it's very hot. I know a lot of people on here share that view. :)

WOW!!! So others do it??

[tvsigeys]

Who do you think you are to say that incest is wrong!? If both parties are alright, you have no right to judge.


That's what it was like for LGBT, for hundreds of years, LGBT members were judged saying its wrong, and they still are today. You guys (and all others who are like this) are hypocrites for saying this. You can't just say "Being gay, bi, or straight is ok. But incest and polygamy is totally wrong". Society STILL says that LGBT members are wrong. You're encouraging bigotry, to be honest with you.

If being gay, lesbian, or bi is ok. Then incest and polygamy is ok, as long as both parties agree to it and are in love, there should be nothing stopping it.


In particular, Myles, you have persecuted those who don't believe in homosexual rights, yet you turn around and persecute other people's beliefs (that being incest). I've seen some threads of you chewing out other members for saying homosexuality is wrong. You're just as wrong as Christians who persecute LGBTers. So there is absolutely no difference between those judgmental Christians and you, because both of you (you and SOME christians) are bigots. Because you're denying love between two consenting parties, what goes on in their bedroom (have it be two men, or a brother and sister) is NONE of your damn business.

This post seems to be on the right track. A lot of people (obviously here but fairly universally) who accept 'LGBT' as a given have a gut reaction opposing incest. It's a view that seems to act like western civilization got going around the 1960s. I can envision there being plenty of reasons to accept or reject neither or both homosexuality and/or/nor incest, but think about why you think what you think.

[wickedclown]

I have not had such thoughts and I can't say that I approve but everybody has their own thing. Just don't tell me-_-

[Myxox]

Agree with what others are saying, keep it a fantasy and it's cool

[Forsakenbymyself]

Well, what people do in their private time is no one else's business. Obviously, sexually abusing your family members is definitely wrong - but if both parties agree to it, and they take measures to prevent consequences, it is no one else's business. having this fantasies is normal, most likely a phase and you will grow out of it.

This is a very good post.

[tommym]

Incest is illegal - so there's no argument as to whether it's OK or not if you do it in the privacy of your own home. Sexual contact or acts between blood relatives is against the law, and for a good reason: offspring can have major defects if blood relatives reproduce.

That said, what you think about while you masturbate is completely up to you. If you want to think about a relative, you have that right. But it absolutely must stop there.

As for peeping, that's called voyeurism and is also illegal. It may not be monitored within a private household, but you should respect everyone's privacy regardless.

Just keep everything in your head, and to yourself, and you'll be fine. Major consequences will come from acting out on any of these types of fantasies.

[Forsakenbymyself]

Incest is illegal - so there's no argument as to whether it's OK or not if you do it in the privacy of your own home. Sexual contact or acts between blood relatives is against the law, and for a good reason: offspring can have major defects if blood relatives reproduce.



Well, even homosexuality is/was illegal.....nonetheless, i think we can all agree here that one's own sexuality should be freely expressed.
I don't think that your point about legality and illegality is very accurate - What is right is not often legal, and viceversa.
Also, what if a hypotethical incestuous couple uses condoms? There are no consequences.

[tommym]

Well, even homosexuality is/was illegal.....nonetheless, i think we can all agree here that one's own sexuality should be freely expressed.
I don't think that your point about legality and illegality is very accurate - What is right is not often legal, and viceversa.
Also, what if a hypotethical incestuous couple uses condoms? There are no consequences.

You make valid points. But while we all know there are many laws on the books that are outdated and obsolete, and many others that many people simply don't agree with, they were/are created for a reason.

In the case of incest, it's easiest to just make it illegal, rather than write pages of exceptions and trust that humans are smart enough to interpret all the rules (which most aren't).

There are no 100% perfect methods of birth control except abstinence. Thus, the only way to prevent babies from being conceived between family members is to make it against the law to have sexual intercourse with a family member. Cut and dry, no exceptions, no loopholes.

Whether it's "right or wrong" is indeed a morality debate, but unlike homosexuality, human life can be seriously affected because of incest.

[Forsakenbymyself]

In the case of incest, it's easiest to just make it illegal, rather than write pages of exceptions and trust that humans are smart enough to interpret all the rules (which most aren't).



I see your point. I disagree, but i see your point.