i screwed up. HELPPPP PLEASE!

[aryadorable]

the other night me and my boyfriend whos 18 had sex and the condom broke before he ejaaculated in me. i got the morning after pill and took it like asap like it said too...but im still insanley afraid i might be pregnant. i dont even know what to do with myself. i told my friend about it incase she could help but instead she told her grandma who told her mom who told my stepmom who was shocked to hear the news. i lied to her and told her my friend had made it up because she was jealouss, but i dont think she fully belives it. shes not sure if she wants to tell my dad or not but if she does im royaly screwed. beacause i cant lie to him about that and ill have to confess the fact that i had sex with someone who i happen to love madly, how i lied to my step mom, and how the drug suspicians he had about me are 100% true.
i dont know what to do.

when can i take a pregnancy test....or does anyone know if the morning after/plan b pill works?

what happens if my dad asks about it?


Help pleaseeee!:confused:

[byee]

OMG! Does it get any worse than this?

First, the morning after pill is effective, so relax. Just make sure you follow the directions exactly.

Then, I'd never speak to that girl 'friend' who snitched. What she did was a betrayal of the worst kind, you told her something in confidence and she betrayed that. Bye bye.

With regard to your folks, there are a couple of options. First, you either come clean with both of them and deal with those consequences. Or you deal with your own conscience about lying to both of them. Neither is particularly appealing, for sure, but you have to take into consideration what the likely results of each will be.

Good luck here, it's a tough spot to be in.

[Patchy]

I think you should do a preg test this week just to double check.

its really tricky for me to say what you should do about telling your parents...because I dont know what your parents are like....I think its best you wait until they come and talk to you so you can see what there reaction is.

hope it all works out in the end.

[NextToNormal]

yes the morning after pill is effective but there could always be that one time it isnt. and about taking the test...i would do it. but if you want to do it so that your folks do not find out anymore than they have to, go to like planned parenthood. they should be able to do the blood test for you and let you know the results without getting your parents involved. eventually your dad will find out what happened, but only if you or your stepmom choose to tell him. thats a really rough place to be in...good luck

[ScotsGirl]

So I guess you dont need a lecture, just help and advice.

(Would you like that with a side salad or... :P)

Seriously though, its good you got the morning after pill. These guys are right, it usually is highly effective and the earlier you took it, the more effective it is likely to be. So try not to worry (easier said than done, I know....)



With regard to your folks, there are a couple of options. First, you either come clean with both of them and deal with those consequences. Or you deal with your own conscience about lying to both of them. Neither is particularly appealing, for sure, but you have to take into consideration what the likely results of each will be.


This is very true. I guess its a decision only you can make.

As for taking a pregnancy test you need to wait a couple of weeks before you can take one and get reliable results.

Maybe you could look into birth control methods which you could use as well as a condom?

I hope things turn out alright!
xxxx

[angryhalfdemon]

Good thing you took the morning after pill. You should definitely take a pregnancy test too, to be on the safe side.

I agree with Sam about your 'friend'. She's not a very good one if she betrays your trust, on any occasion, never mind this one. What she did was horrible! almost worse than stealing away your boyfriend or something. I wouldn't bother with a friend like that, if you ask me.

Good luck with everything!

[Fiending_the_freedom]

i've taken plan b when the conom broke for me and my boyfriend, but we foudn otu after he finished.
it works ,
no worries!
btw, why would you have to admit to your dad that his drug suspisions are true?

[chris__robin]

just be careful because pregnancy tests aren't always accurate ... the best way is through a blood test from your doc.
i guess it depends how old you are ... if you are over the legal age to have sex then i suppose theres nothing wrong apart from being ashamed from your dad depending on his views.

[Camazotz]

Definitly use the pregnancy test in case. The pill should have worked, but it's possible it didnt. As for the friend? I completely disagree that you should send her away. She probably wanted to help you, so asked her grandma for advice, hoping she wouldnt tell. But the grandma did tell. It sounds like all they want to do is help. Sooner or later, you should confront everyone and admit your mistake.