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mylittlelizard8
August 29th, 2013, 10:46 AM
My cousin is coming swimming in a few days. Is it okay to change in front of another guy? He is also 14 but I have never seen him naked.

Lost in the Echo
August 29th, 2013, 10:50 AM
I guess it's fine as long as the both of you are comfortable with it.

mylittlelizard8
August 29th, 2013, 10:52 AM
Yeah but what if he is bigger or has more pubes?

Mynick
August 29th, 2013, 10:59 AM
That's no problem at all. You shouldn't be embarrassed if his penis is bigger or has more pubes. Your pubes will eventually grow and so your penis. Feel fine with what you have.

kylem1229
August 29th, 2013, 11:00 AM
Its completely normal to change infront of a guy, just like gym locker rooms. Also who cares if he has bigger pubes? Yours will grow soon anyways.

Lost in the Echo
August 29th, 2013, 11:02 AM
Yeah but what if he is bigger or has more pubes?

If you're self-conscious about that, then change when you're alone. It's not like you guys absolutely have to change in front of each other. If you don't want to, don't.

Living For Love
August 29th, 2013, 11:02 AM
Yeah but what if he is bigger or has more pubes?

Don't let that worry you. You're cousins, so it's normal if you see each other naked, even if one of you has more pubes or a bigger penis. It's all part of our puberty. But you don't have to change in his presence if you don't want to.

mylittlelizard8
August 29th, 2013, 11:05 AM
Its normal for cousins to see each other naked?

Living For Love
August 29th, 2013, 11:12 AM
Its normal for cousins to see each other naked?

Their your family, dude. It's normal if your changing in a bathroom before going swimming.

Mynick
August 29th, 2013, 11:12 AM
As long as you are both fine with it its not a problem. Personaly i have seen my cousin naked and we showered together one time. Its no big deal to us.

GeorgeBoy
August 29th, 2013, 11:31 AM
i think its ok ;)

mylittlelizard8
August 29th, 2013, 11:42 AM
I guess its normal to see each other naked.

QuantumPhysics
August 29th, 2013, 11:50 AM
My cousin is coming swimming in a few days. Is it okay to change in front of another guy? He is also 14 but I have never seen him naked.

Just chill. It's a piece of skin tht people have deemed rude. It doesn't matter about showing him your genitalia and vice versa

Ballboy
August 29th, 2013, 12:16 PM
Lotsa guys get naked together when changing before or after sports. It doesn't hafta be a big deal but I know how you feel still. It's maybe easier with guys who're not related.

johnsmith1
August 29th, 2013, 04:17 PM
Yeah but what if he is bigger or has more pubes?

Some people are self conscious and worry, others don't seem to mind so much. He might be smaller. Do what you both feel comfortable with, and remember you are both growing, and don't worry on who is bigger

denisss
August 29th, 2013, 04:23 PM
it's okay, just don't stress about it! :)

dontfiguremeout
August 29th, 2013, 05:13 PM
Well I don't see any problems with it. It's not like you have a huge age difference, so it's fine.

ska8er
August 29th, 2013, 05:28 PM
if hes comfortable to change in front of u then i dont c y u cant either. if he is self consious he will give u a hint.

notavailable0000
August 29th, 2013, 05:28 PM
Its OK, but if you aren't comfortable, then don't.

mylittlelizard8
August 29th, 2013, 05:39 PM
Your right. Its just skin. And we are related.

mylittlelizard8
August 29th, 2013, 05:41 PM
Your right its just skin. We are both boys and are related.

countryboi9
August 29th, 2013, 06:06 PM
sure its ok, u r both guys so why would it be wrong

Luke91
August 29th, 2013, 08:01 PM
Absolutely it is OK to change in front of your cousin. I am surprised you have not been naked with him before now. Take the lead and make it happen. It very well could make your relationship stronger when he sees you are not afraid. Have fun.

anonteen
August 29th, 2013, 08:03 PM
Only if you two are ok with it.

ksdnfkfr
August 29th, 2013, 08:29 PM
My cousin and I used to take baths together and we see each other naked all the time changing for swimming because he's family. His is bigger than mine now and he has hair and I don't but that doesn't matter, all boys are different.

The Trendy Wolf
August 29th, 2013, 09:20 PM
My cousin is coming swimming in a few days. Is it okay to change in front of another guy? He is also 14 but I have never seen him naked.

I completely understand and I personally wouldn't change in front of another person because I'm pretty shy in general. If you really don't want to change in front of him then just change somewhere else. If you have no choice then don't sweat it! He'll probably be just as nervous as you are!

curiouse97
August 29th, 2013, 10:35 PM
just do it see what happens

ComfortableInChaos
August 29th, 2013, 10:52 PM
Yeah bro, it's just your cousin. Not like you'll be sucking each other off lol

justin 13
August 30th, 2013, 02:36 PM
Well, If I can avoid to get undressed in front of him better. I dont like be naked in front other guys unless well u know LOL

MrTyphoon
August 31st, 2013, 06:29 AM
its normal to get undressed in-front of another guy, so dw about it:)

Marek1
August 31st, 2013, 11:00 AM
sure why not?

Gogeta
August 31st, 2013, 11:38 AM
Yeah I reckon it's all good!
Your family who cares if you see each other naked! I reckon it's cool seeing my cousins naked haha

eckiboy
September 1st, 2013, 02:37 AM
i think it's normal. you should try it and see what happens...

Uncut Joe
September 1st, 2013, 01:05 PM
I'd say its fine if you're both comfortable with it.

Catholic Guy
September 2nd, 2013, 05:14 PM
As long as you are both comfortable with it there is nothing wrong with changing around each other, it's better that you are the same age as well because that means you are more likely to look the same, if you are both comfortable just do it, get naked and get it over and done with and you will probably have a better relationship afterwards anyway

inkd-blu
September 2nd, 2013, 05:23 PM
kiddo, if it's fine between you two and you want to, go for it.

ewang
September 2nd, 2013, 07:37 PM
Yeah it's okay

wish_master_TWA
September 2nd, 2013, 07:49 PM
I don't see why not, as long as you're both comfortable with it :D

matshorter
September 4th, 2013, 07:58 AM
Everybody is different. So don't worry if his penis is bigger or if he has more pubes.

steve21
September 17th, 2013, 08:12 PM
yes as long as you are both comfortable.

thomas.mueller
September 21st, 2013, 09:36 AM
you should try...

The captain
September 21st, 2013, 01:03 PM
I guess it's fine as long as the both of you are comfortable with it.

tottaly agree

Verde
September 21st, 2013, 01:07 PM
If you're both comfortable, no problem.

josh100
September 21st, 2013, 01:22 PM
My cousin is coming swimming in a few days. Is it okay to change in front of another guy? He is also 14 but I have never seen him naked.

Of course. Don't worry about it. I assume the pool is at your place. He will be more worried about your Mom seeing him naked than you. Just chill out and get on with it. Very good life experience. Enjoy the swimming.

McAK101
September 21st, 2013, 01:54 PM
I see no problem with it. You're both boys, and you're family. As long as you two are okay with it, then I see no issue.

fast8
September 21st, 2013, 02:03 PM
Yea its normal

thomas.mueller
September 21st, 2013, 02:06 PM
My cousin is coming swimming in a few days. Is it okay to change in front of another guy? He is also 14 but I have never seen him naked.

you tried it now? tell us what was going on!

nklarke
September 21st, 2013, 06:22 PM
mylittlelizard8

My cousin is coming swimming in a few days. Is it okay to change in front of another guy? He is also 14 but I have never seen him naked.

Yeah, it's ok and normal.

mylittlelizard8

Yeah but what if he is bigger or has more pubes?

Nothing, it means that he is developing faster so what? If it's the first time, he won't have confidence to tell you nothing.

countryboi9
September 21st, 2013, 06:34 PM
nothing wrong with changing in front of another boy, u afraid he will see your penis

justin6969
September 21st, 2013, 06:51 PM
as long as you are both comfortable with it

Jamie_P
September 22nd, 2013, 09:10 AM
Of course its okay for you to get changed in front of another guy, as long as you are both comfortable with it. People do it all the time.

Ammyneac
October 8th, 2013, 05:28 PM
If the pool is private and as long you're comfortable then yes.

darry123
October 17th, 2013, 11:35 AM
It's fine

Richee
October 17th, 2013, 12:52 PM
I guess if you to are OK with it I don't see a big deal.

hockeyfan
October 17th, 2013, 11:33 PM
Its normal other wize all gym changing rooms would be a lot different.

You never saw your cousin naked before so if your getting changed at the pool its fine. However if your changing at your house before you go take his lead.

Throwaway24
October 28th, 2013, 05:36 AM
As long as u r both up for it, its fine