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confusedboy
August 29th, 2013, 01:04 AM
I'm 19 and I've never been in a steady relationship yet with another guy. I've dated plenty of guys so I know what I'm looking when it comes to having a boyfriend. I met this guy last Saturday night and I've seen him everyday since. We text everyday too. Out of all the previous losers, tools, and jerks I've dated before, he just feels right. When's a good time to ask him to be my boyfriend?

Also what's weird is he just moved to my area a day before we met. It almost seems like we were meant to meet each other.

Any advice and tips are welcome :)

Laquifa
August 29th, 2013, 01:19 AM
I wouldn't go for making it official just yet until you are sure of his intentions. I speak from experience; guys can be jerks. I would say go another few days and drop some hints that you're willing to make it official, and see how he responds.

Abyssal Echo
August 29th, 2013, 01:41 AM
I have to agree with Jay guys can be jerks. I think you should get to know him better before asking him to be your boy friend.

Gumleaf
August 29th, 2013, 01:58 AM
I can only speak from a straight perspective, but the same rules apply. I think you should get to know him for a while at least before asking him out...... Then as for making it official, make sure you're both on the same page on the relationship before you start telling people.

confusedboy
August 29th, 2013, 08:38 AM
Thanks everyone. I know I want to date him a little more, I wasn't going to ask him today or tomorrow but I'm just saying we both seem to be on the same page.

Maybe in a week or so I'll come up with a way to ask him what he's looking for.