i feel very sad and hurt....

[breakingbad27]

In my last post i talked about how i met this girl and we were chatting on kik and she sent me her pics. We were getting along really well seeing that we both were attracted to each other and we had some common interests ( there was a sad side to it becuz she was showing and talking about how she has a hard life and she cuts herself ). i did a reverse image search and it showed that the pictures are actually of some 14 year old whos pictures were hacked and she is 18 now. i feel sad and hurt because i started to feel happy knowing that this could turn into something and that i could be truly happy with someone i like. Also a lot of my anxiety, fears, and depression went away during those two days. i was also taking care of myself more. Every since figuring that out i keep on still fantasizing about a good life seeing her and talking to her, etc.

How do i get past this?

is it ok if i keep on fantasizing, should i ?

do you think it is possible that i can find a woman close to what i was interested in ?

please i would appreciate any other advice.

this is the video of her on abc talking about the pics being posted on the internet:
http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/angie-varona-14-year-unwillingly-internet-sex-symbol/story?id=14882768

one of the images that were sent to me: http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2LXmtCdcV7w/Tw8SIYAeT2I/AAAAAAAABhY/1BgDPI5FooM/s400/coul-angie_varona_041.jpg

[Elysium]

Did you confront the girl about it? She just might not have felt comfortable putting her face out on the internet. If you've only known her for a few days, I wouldn't blame her, either.

[Gumleaf]

I'm sorry dude, that's crappy that you've been screwed over like this. :(

You need to try and move on from this and do so relatively quickly before it drags you down. While you mourn the relationship it's probably ok to fantasise for a period of time, but longer term fantasising about this will just make you more and more depressed. What I suggest you do is try and do things to forget about her, such as going out and doing things you enjoy, perform your hobbies whatever they may be or simply talk to friends.

I'm not sure what you're interested in, but if you're looking for a slim, attractive girl with big boobs (going by the pic), then more likely then not you'll be disappointed. I think you should look for a girl who likes you for you. Don't be too specific in what you want and that way you'll leave your options open. It's amazing how you can come across the most compatible girls when you're least looking for them.

Good luck and don't be too down, ok?

[EddietheZombie]

I felt something similar once. I met a girl on a chat site and she was AMAZING. We had so much in common it was like talking to myself. But the site glitched and i didnt get to get her email. She hasnt been on since either..

[breakingbad27]

I'm sorry dude, that's crappy that you've been screwed over like this. :(

You need to try and move on from this and do so relatively quickly before it drags you down. While you mourn the relationship it's probably ok to fantasise for a period of time, but longer term fantasising about this will just make you more and more depressed. What I suggest you do is try and do things to forget about her, such as going out and doing things you enjoy, perform your hobbies whatever they may be or simply talk to friends.

I'm not sure what you're interested in, but if you're looking for a slim, attractive girl with big boobs (going by the pic), then more likely then not you'll be disappointed. I think you should look for a girl who likes you for you. Don't be too specific in what you want and that way you'll leave your options open. It's amazing how you can come across the most compatible girls when you're least looking for them.

Good luck and don't be too down, ok?

So are you saying that I will never find a girl that is both attractive and have a great personality ? ( I am not trying to backlash I am just asking )

[Gumleaf]

So are you saying that I will never find a girl that is both attractive and have a great personality ? ( I am not trying to backlash I am just asking )

No, of course not. Just don't set your standards too high that you might miss out on a nice relationship with someone else because they don't meet your expectations.