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Matt_97
August 28th, 2013, 04:23 PM
Im really confused at the minute :what: i'll start off by apologising for how long this will presumably be:

This girl i have been friends with for nearly two years. It started off when we sat next to each other in lessons just because of alphabetical seating plans, we then started talking and hit it off and pretty much became pretty much like best friends. Some lessons we'd do one paragraph in our coursework because we would be laughing and talking. Everybody said she liked me and stuff but i thought nothing of it. It came to the end of the year and me leaving to go to a sixth form college and her staying on, we pretty much said our good byes and promised to meet up every couple of months to catch up.

It was my birthday a couple days ago and my mum said we could go to Alton Towers (one of the best theme parks in the uk) and i could invite a friend. So u invited her. We had a fun day but there were a few things that made me start to think:

- Throughout the day when we were waiting in queues she would be fiddling with my hoodie trying to straighten it out. Which made me think is she paying that much attention to me to notice my jacket not sitting right.
- Near the end of the day we went on The Smiler, it was absolutely huge and we were both really nervous about going on it so we decided we'd hold hands on it as a comfort. When the ride came back into the station we didn't let go of each others hands. We then spent the rest of the day.
-Then in the car ride home it as getting really late and became dark really quickly. She started messing with my hair.

I mean this could all be nothing and i might just be over thinking. Its been rattling around in my head since i got back home. I'm grateful of anybody who takes the time to read this and a massive thank you to anybody who can help.

Mynick
August 28th, 2013, 04:32 PM
To me it looks like she may be interested in you. I assume you still talk even though you are not in the same school, or just when you are together?
Try going out a bit more with her and see what she says or does.

kylem1229
August 28th, 2013, 04:34 PM
In my opinion, she is just really glad to see you and doesnt really want to leave you/very sad to leave. Then the ride came back into the station we didn't let go of each others hands. Thats one of the signs there that she wants to spend as much time as she can with you.

Mynick
August 28th, 2013, 04:35 PM
In my opinion, she is just really glad to see you and doesnt really want to leave you/very sad to leave. Thats one of the signs there that she wants to spend as much time as she can with you.
It may be also that ofc.
Speak with her.

Gumleaf
August 28th, 2013, 11:30 PM
It's hard to tell for certain either way. Although I would have to say that for friends to hold hands for extended periods throughout the day may indicate something. As for her fiddling with your clothes, well I have a friend who does that to me and we are definetly just friends only. But maybe if you really like her, you could ask her out?

Living For Love
August 30th, 2013, 07:30 AM
It seems to me she's interested in you. She didn't like the fact that you had to leave her when you moved school, so she did everything to make you think that she could possibly be interested in you. Try to be with her more often.

numbness
August 31st, 2013, 07:12 AM
i think shes interested,try and keep in touch with her

Matt_97
September 2nd, 2013, 01:08 AM
I would lik tothank everybody for your replies and advice :) i did forget to mention in the opening post that we aren't really going to lose contact, we text each other close to daily if not every other day. We promised we'd meet up for coffee or a superhero movie "once in a blue moon" (which we decided would be once every three months) so its not like we're going from best friends to complete strangers in the space of a few weeks!

Theres also the risk that if we were in a relationship and it ended badly then i've lost the friendship that we built up before the relationship and i'd end up losing one of the closest friends i have. Its a lot to risk for the possiblity of more.

I want to thank everybody for your encouraging support and advice! I hope im not being to much of a pain!

Inzanethingy
September 2nd, 2013, 01:52 AM
Go for the long distance relationship. Btw the rollercoaster story is really cute!!!

Laquifa
September 2nd, 2013, 01:52 AM
She may be interested, but I wouldn't make any moves until you're absolutely sure she's interested.