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Emilylovescookies
August 28th, 2013, 12:35 AM
I've always been only attracted to boys. I've had about 9 boyfriends. I'm currently dating someone who i love with all my heart. the thing is,recently I've realized that I'm also attracted to girls. I'm confused about this. does this make me bisexual? my friends say yes but idk. I'm not asking this in a "if i'm bisexual i'm gonna kill myself cause thats disgusting" way. three of my closest friends are bisexual so i'm not a homophobe or anything. also, should i tell my boyfriend? I don't want to keep this from him but this isn't somthing thats easily brought up. help me please :P

Living For Love
August 30th, 2013, 05:36 AM
It doesn't really make you bisexual, it may be all part of you puberty process. Don't tell your boyfriend yet, because you still not sure if you ar bisexual or not, so do not speed up things. Don't worry too much about that, just enjoy your relationship.

Mynick
August 30th, 2013, 06:07 AM
If you are physically and emotionally attracted to both boys and girls you're bisexual.
But as Ryanair said it could just be hormones because of puberty.
Don't tell him just yet, and personally i dont think that's that important.

Miri
August 30th, 2013, 06:27 PM
Bisexuality describes someone who is physically and emotionally attracted to both men and women.

You may be bisexual or you may just be curious, but if you love your boyfriend with "all of your heart", as you say, unless you think bisexual feelings (or any other feelings for that matter) are getting in the way of your relationship, you could just bring it up on a casual basis, or not at all.

Victory
August 30th, 2013, 09:52 PM
You'll never know unless you try it. The question is... Is it worth it to try it right now?

Gumleaf
August 31st, 2013, 04:32 AM
Like others have said, if you are both physically and emotionally attracted to girls and boys, you are indeed bisexual. However, imo, if you are only physically attracted to girls, meaning you just want to have sex or do sexual stuff with them, but don't ever feel like you'd like a 'girlfriend', then I would say you're straight and curious.

Since you've had so many boyfriends, maybe the best way you can try and figure things out is to compare how boys and girls make you feel emotionally, especially if there is a particular girl you're feeling attracted to right now. That might give you a better idea of how you're really feeling? If you do find yourself to be bisexual, then I think your boyfriend should know.

numbness
August 31st, 2013, 06:58 AM
i wouldnt tell him yet just see how things progress i suppose,if you love him then just go with what feels right