Is this ok?

[QuantumPhysics]

This boy was behind me in science one time and we were all crowded (standing up) in the middle of the room. He put his penis near my butt and it felt cold. He must of freeballed. I liked it a bit. I think he fancies me. A lot of boys seem gay in our school but they try to seem masculine. They look at each others junk all the time and take pictures of themselves shirtless and with boners in shorts. Can someone help me? Am I Gay?

[Destroyeroftissue]

U might be u have to find out for yourself in time

[QuantumPhysics]

But was it is penis? It was cold. maybe cos i was sat down so my butt was warn

[Lost in the Echo]

Simple answer: If you are physically and emotionally attracted to other guys, you are gay.

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[QuantumPhysics]

But its only physically. I only like girls emotionally but do not get erections over them unless in sexual poses

[Jman98]

That's odd, maybe u are

[Lost in the Echo]

But its only physically. I only like girls emotionally but do not get erections over them unless in sexual poses

Well, maybe it's just hormones making you feel this way. But, if you're attracted to girls, you're not gay. In order for you to be gay, you have to be solely attracted to the same gender.

[QuantumPhysics]

Thanks a lot. It makes me feel really bad when people at school keep calling me gay cos I hang around with girls

[Spook]

People call you gay for hanging out with girls?
I think people have a warped definition of what it means to be gay....

[QuantumPhysics]

Yeh, I hang out with girls at the time and with two boys as well. I just say it takes one to know one and tht they are trying to cover up their own latent homosexualtiy. It confuses them

[Josh from SoCal]

OK, first off.... why do you need a label? Can't you just be 13 yr old "QuantumPhysics" and not 13 yr old GAY "QuantumPhysics" or 13 yr old straight "QuantumPhysics"? Or whatever. Your identity is always changing so I wouldn't try to confine who you are by some stupid label.

Second... how did you know his junk was cold? you had clothes on, didn't you? was it so cold that you could actually tell through both of your clothes??

[justin 13]

Dude I'm gay and I wish being in that school where boys seems 2b gays..in my school is the opposite all the guys r str8 and they are never acting in that way. I didn't get the part when u knew his dick was cold? But anyway be careful.

[Envy.]

I am totally in the same situation as you. sexually attracted to guys, emotionally to girls.

And I had a similar thing happen to me too. I was in the pe locker room and the guy next to me was wearing only boxers and I turned around for a sec and he seemed to bump his penis into my butt for just a moment (and never apologized, so I don't think it was an accident)

[anonteen]

But its only physically. I only like girls emotionally but do not get erections over them unless in sexual poses

This does not mean you are gay. To be gay you have to both emotionally attracted and sexualy attracted. Did this guy ask you first and did you accept, thats what matters most. It is not okay for him to do this with out asking. If it makes you feel better, i have a gay side, an some days its more than others. I have learned to accept it, however im 17 so i have had time. You should give this time and experiment if you like.

Hope this helps
Mike

[sqishy]

It means you could be bisexual, but if you're not sure, it just means you are straight and curious.

[teen.jpg]

You'll know if your gay or not. Chances are though you're not since you're so confused about it.

[Living For Love]

OK, first off.... why do you need a label? Can't you just be 13 yr old "QuantumPhysics" and not 13 yr old GAY "QuantumPhysics" or 13 yr old straight "QuantumPhysics"? Or whatever. Your identity is always changing so I wouldn't try to confine who you are by some stupid label.

Second... how did you know his junk was cold? you had clothes on, didn't you? was it so cold that you could actually tell through both of your clothes??

Totally agree.

[Luminous]

It was very innapropriate of him to do that.
But its only physically. I only like girls emotionally but do not get erections over them unless in sexual poses From what I can tell, that's actually not too uncommon with teens. You might end up dating a girl an when you have sex you realize that you actually do like guys completely. Some people don't. Don't kill yourself over it, and give your hormones some time to figure themselves out.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Just ignore what people say - and time to grow up is good.