Super scared read please GIRLS

[Zeke]

Ladies, I am actually a 17 year old male, but my girlfriend is 15.

Yesterday she was over my house and she thought she started her period, there was a little blood on her underwear and when she wiped. So i gave her a pad and after about a half hour she wen't to the bathroom and there was very little blood on the pad, and it seemed like the bleeding stopped.

The only thing the internet says is pregnancy. But the thing is i've never had sex in my life, and neither has she.

I'm in such a panic why did this happen she can't be pregnant. Someone help i'm losing my mind.

[QuantumPhysics]

I shouldn't be posting here but she may have stopped her period anyway. She may have been bleeding because of something else. Pregnancy is one of many likely situations. Ask her.

[Zeke]

She already got her period this month, so it would be weird to have it twice in one month. I'm so scared there is no possible way shes pregnant we aren't sexually active.

[Lost in the Echo]

Puberty For Girls :arrow: Questions for Both Boys and girls
Guys aren't allowed to post in the girls' forum, and vise versa.

In response to your question: You say neither of you have had sex, but have you done anything relatively close? If semen has somehow got into her vagina, she could be pregnant. But, if that has never happened, then it's impossible for her to be pregnant.

[Tarannosaurus]

'Spot bleeding' can occur before a girl's actual period starts. This is probably the most likely explanation. Has she been menstruating long? It can take a year or two for the menstruation cycle to become regular.

[Zeke]

She already had her period this month. She does have irregular periods though, one time she went 7 months without one.

Puberty For Girls :arrow: Questions for Both Boys and girls
Guys aren't allowed to post in the girls' forum, and vise versa.

In response to your question: You say neither of you have had sex, but have you done anything relatively close? If semen has somehow got into her vagina, she could be pregnant. But, if that has never happened, then it's impossible for her to be pregnant.

And i don't think semen actually got into her I don't know :(

[Luminous]

Sometimes, in between periods when a girl is ovulating, they can get a few drops of blood come out. Very light spotting. It usually doesn't even drip into her underwear and instead will come off when wiping after using the bathroom. Sometimes it might though. I get it occasionally. Usually it comes at the time of the month she's the most likely to get pregnant.

[Lost in the Echo]

And i don't think semen actually got into her I don't know :(

I think the best thing to do is buy a pregnancy test. It will clear up the confusion.

[Zeke]

We are definitely too young to have a kid. There's no possible way she can be pregnant we've never had sex why does the only solution come up pregnancy when I google it?!

[Lost in the Echo]

We are definitely too young to have a kid. There's no possible way she can be pregnant we've never had sex why does the only solution come up pregnancy when I google it?!

Not everything on the internet is true. Don't believe everything you see.
If you're so worried about this, like I said, buy a pregnancy test.
As I mentioned though, there is no possible way she is pregnant, if you guys have never "done anything" .

I'd recommend waiting to see what happens, or buy a pregnancy test.
I highly doubt she's pregnant, though.

[Tarannosaurus]

She already had her period this month. She does have irregular periods though, one time she went 7 months without one.

And i don't think semen actually got into her I don't know :(

I wouldn't worry too much then, my periods were also very irregular. She could go on tablets to make it more regular but it will most likely sort itself out.

Since it's excess blood rather than a lack of blood I don't think you should be too worried about pregnancy. For future reference though - sperm are very tough and very persistent, and can stay alive for several hours. Make sure you wear a condom if there's any danger of sperm entering her/ landing near the vagina even if no penetration occurs.

[Zeke]

I usually always have pants on, so if i 'leak' I don't think it would go through my undwear, then my shorts, then into her, right?

Plus i've read that air is a natural spermicide, so if i accidentally got some on my fingers, air would kill it, I would need a whole glob of it on my fingers to get her pregnant so theres not way she could get pregnant through fingering, I think. Other than that I can't think of any other explanation on how she could be pregnant :\

[Tarannosaurus]

I usually always have pants on, so if i 'leak' I don't think it would go through my undwear, then my shorts, then into her, right?
No that's not very likely as long as you have pants on you'll be fine.

Plus i've read that air is a natural spermicide, so if i accidentally got some on my fingers, air would kill it, I would need a whole glob of it on my fingers to get her pregnant so theres not way she could get pregnant through fingering, I think. Other than that I can't think of any other explanation on how she could be pregnant :\
I've never heard that but I would not rely on air if I were you. Remember: in that glob there are millions of sperm. All it takes is one, so it is actually possible. I would say better safe than sorry and wash your hands before fingering.

[Zeke]

No that's not very likely as long as you have pants on you'll be fine.


I've never heard that but I would not rely on air if I were you. Remember: in that glob there are millions of sperm. All it takes is one, so it is actually possible. I would say better safe than sorry and wash your hands before fingering.

Its never noticably on my fingers. Such as my hands being slimy or something, they are mostly always dry and not slimy so I don't really know how to explain it you catch my drift :S

[Miri]

If you think that there's a possibility that she may be pregnant, then just buy a pregnancy test to sort out all of the confusion. She may just be spotting before starting her period, which is common, or she may be spotting a bit because she is ovulating, which can happen in between menstruation.

[Elysium]

Depending on what you were doing beforehand, she could've also torn her hymen a little. I highly doubt she's pregnant.

[Tarannosaurus]

Its never noticably on my fingers. Such as my hands being slimy or something, they are mostly always dry and not slimy so I don't really know how to explain it you catch my drift :S
Yeah I get you, but still you never know. I should have added you should wash your hands anyway a lot of germs live on hands and it could cause infections.

[Zeke]

One time i actually had a little bit of semen on my fingers when i fingered her, and i didn't think anything of it till afterwards, but then she got her period. So I don't think she can get pregnant from fingering since that's all we've done so far.

I'm guessing it is ovulation or menstruation or something along those lines I don't know. It just confuses me that shes bled considering the fact she already had her period in the first month of august.

[Tarannosaurus]

Well if she had her period then you're alright. I assure you spotting is quite common, don't be worried about it.

[Sara97]

If she's only 15, she could still be irregular. I really don't think it's anything to worry about. Especially if you know she isn't sexually active.

[1_21Guns]

There are plenty of perfectly logical reasons girls spot between their periods that aren't pregnancy. (http://www.nhs.uk/chq/pages/976.aspx?CategoryID=60&SubCategoryID=181)
The only reason it says pregnancy a lot is because that's what can happen when you're pregnant, it doesn't mean that she is pregnant.

[Zeke]

There are plenty of perfectly logical reasons girls spot between their periods that aren't pregnancy. (http://www.nhs.uk/chq/pages/976.aspx?CategoryID=60&SubCategoryID=181)
The only reason it says pregnancy a lot is because that's what can happen when you're pregnant, it doesn't mean that she is pregnant.

I read that but all of it doesn't seem right. Shes not on any pills whatsoever :S

[Tarannosaurus]

I read that but all of it doesn't seem right. Shes not on any pills whatsoever :S

Besides pills, t also says:
-stress
-vaginal dryness
-harmless changes to the cervix (neck of the womb): this may be called ectropion or cervical erosion

It probably scared you a bit but it really is normal and can happen for no reason at all. Think about it - when a girl menstruates the blood lining of the womb passes out through the vagina with the unfertilized egg. During the first few years it will be irregular so some of the leftover lining is still left over and passes out a bit later. Or else some of the lining breaks up and passes out ahead of next month's period.

In fact spotting happens to most girls I know.

[1_21Guns]

I read that but all of it doesn't seem right. Shes not on any pills whatsoever :S

stress, injury though insertion (not necessarily a penis) etc (not saying any of that fits but its not contraceptive pills :P), and frankly some girls just get it, it's not completely abnormal for a little bit of spotting to occur. To be honest with you I got it for the first time ever last week, and it just passes on, sometimes these things just happen it's best not to dwell too much assuming you are 100% certain she's not pregnant. Getting a test isn't that bad if you just want peace of mind and if she's really concerned she can see a doctor but like I said, these things just happen sometimes

[Zeke]

I guess we "dry humped". I was fully clothed but she was most likely completely naked, when i felt my pants they felt soaked, so did my inner shorts. I don't know if my own seamen could go all the way through my pants, onto the outside, into her vagina. I never actually penetrated her, only dry humped a few times.

What are the chances of her getting pregnant? I'm kind of scared. Her period ended august 7th, and got the spotting august 26th. I don't know what you can do with this information but here you go.

Started to panic AGAIN. A few nights ago she was over and she had a headache too. Her mom said it could be from her constant low blood sugar (shes a diabetic) I don't know.

Help guys, again :S

[Miri]

I guess we "dry humped". I was fully clothed but she was most likely completely naked, when i felt my pants they felt soaked, so did my inner shorts. I don't know if my own seamen could go all the way through my pants, onto the outside, into her vagina. I never actually penetrated her, only dry humped a few times.

What are the chances of her getting pregnant? I'm kind of scared. Her period ended august 7th, and got the spotting august 26th. I don't know what you can do with this information but here you go.

Started to panic AGAIN. A few nights ago she was over and she had a headache too. Her mom said it could be from her constant low blood sugar (shes a diabetic) I don't know.

Help guys, again :S

Most likely completely naked? You mean you don't know if she was or wasn't?

Anyways, that's besides the point. The point is you need to stop stressing out.
Simple solution: Pregnancy test.
That will give you your answer, and it will tell you more than any of us on this forum can guarantee.

[teen.jpg]

How does one become pregnant without sex?

[Zeke]

Most likely completely naked? You mean you don't know if she was or wasn't?

Anyways, that's besides the point. The point is you need to stop stressing out.
Simple solution: Pregnancy test.
That will give you your answer, and it will tell you more than any of us on this forum can guarantee.
I'm pretty postive she was naked. but were scared to do a pregnancy test, I don't know what it will be and i'm too scared to find out
How does one become pregnant without sex?

To be honest I don't know, but i guess its possible ;\

[TommyTom]

How does one become pregnant without sex?

ohh thats easy u just Need to get enough sperm inside and she gets pregnant with enough i mean one can be enough doesnt have to ofc xD! and there are many ways to get sperm inside a Girl without having sex, fingering (obv with sperm on fingers) is one way shootin at her vagine when u come is another one (this has actually happened and is not just a bad joke) and there are probably 100 more i cant think off and no air does not kill sperm immediatly i think it about 1 hour sperm can function when outside of ur body :)
As for the help i would just get a pregnancy test u Need be sure becuz if she is u Need to make plans for that if she isnt u can chill again and not be worried all the time! She probably isnt pregnant there are a lot of other explanations for the blood but u kno what?? better safe than sorry!

[Miri]

I'm pretty postive she was naked. but were scared to do a pregnancy test, I don't know what it will be and i'm too scared to find out

I'm pretty sure she's not pregnant, but if you don't want to do a test, you'll just have to wait to find out for sure, which in my mind is even scarier than doing a test.

[teen.jpg]

-huge palm of the face- I hope you're a virgin because you don't seem very ready for anything to happen.

[Zeke]

-huge palm of the face- I hope you're a virgin because you don't seem very ready for anything to happen.

I am a virgin, we both are, I've never been sexually active in my life. I suffer from extreme anxiety and paranoia. Explains this thread doesn't it?

[teen.jpg]

I am a virgin, we both are, I've never been sexually active in my life. I suffer from extreme anxiety and paranoia. Explains this thread doesn't it?

Well that was pretty apparent, actually.

[TommyTom]

-huge palm of the face- I hope you're a virgin because you don't seem very ready for anything to happen.

Just wondering you talkin to me?? If so why??

[Zeke]

Well that was pretty apparent, actually.

Health anxiety actually, which is why i always end up googling stuff. I'm just nervous. I never been in a relationship were i've gotten this far, Its all knew to me, and her. I'm just confused on whats going on. I can't get a straight forward explanation of this situation.

I'm confused and scared and losing my mind

[teen.jpg]

Just wondering you talkin to me?? If so why??

No not you.

[teen.jpg]

Health anxiety actually, which is why i always end up googling stuff. I'm just nervous. I never been in a relationship were i've gotten this far, Its all knew to me, and her. I'm just confused on whats going on. I can't get a straight forward explanation of this situation.

I'm confused and scared and losing my mind

I think she can handle period stuff by herself though o.o

[Zeke]

I think she can handle period stuff by herself though o.o

It was so weird though, She literally bled for a few minutes, and stopped, on the pad it was this one little spot and it just stopped.

It has never happened to her before, were just both so confused.

[TommyTom]

Health anxiety actually, which is why i always end up googling stuff. I'm just nervous. I never been in a relationship were i've gotten this far, Its all knew to me, and her. I'm just confused on whats going on. I can't get a straight forward explanation of this situation.

I'm confused and scared and losing my mind

First of ist totally normal to be worried i remember when i had my first mager Freak out xD But you shouldnt trust Google with everything is the first Thing i would tell you and secondly u Need to calm down and Focus otherwise u will make the wrong desicions and it will get worse :)

[Zeke]

Its been two weeks since her little bleeding incident. No real symptoms, shes been cramping today and has been having head aches for awhile, shes not sure if her period is coming. Don't know whether to panic or not :S

[HUSTLEMAN]

Its been two weeks since her little bleeding incident. No real symptoms, shes been cramping today and has been having head aches for awhile, shes not sure if her period is coming. Don't know whether to panic or not :S

By the gods go get a pregnancy test!!!! The longer you wait the more you'll panic. Just go. Most likely she's not pregnant, but there's a .00001 percent chance she's pregnant but because you refuse to get a test you'll never know. Now man up and GO GET A TEST!