porn... sort of

[raidersuck]

i never really look at porn, but still ill go to like victorias secret and other sites swimsuit type sites. Is that wrong?

i know its not actually wrong, but is it like morally wrong or something?

[Patchy]

Its not wrong at all

you obviously get turned on by girls or boys in swimsuits its completely normal

[Gumleaf]

only you can decide if its morally wrong for you. some people like myself would say yes its wrong, but others would say that its fine. its up to you if you want to look at stuff like that.

[Sugaree]

No it's not wrong unless you believe it's morally wrong in your eyes. So it's not a big deal

[RaisingSand]

Guys are visually stimulated, so this is totally normal. And not looking at porn a lot is normal, and TBH, the porn out there on the 'net isn't that great anyway. Whereas the Victoria's Secret girls, the entire thing is classy and sexy (and most porn out there isn't) and more subtle. :)

[Dolphus Raymond]

That's up to your sense of morality.

I personally don't think it's wrong. You're not hurting anyone. And even if you consider porn immoral, there are differences (here, someone isn't being paid to belittle themselves). But if you consider any form of lust, or visible stimulation, wrong (like for religious reasons), that's a different story.

Personally, I think:

1. You aren't doing any harm.
2. You aren't encouraging anything that does harm.
3. You aren't really doing yourself any harm.
4. What you are doing is common and "normal" (this doesn't have anything to do with morality, but it's true).

So I don't think it's immoral.

But morality is your own decision, not mine. :)

[byee]

We can't tell you what is morally correct or not for you.

Guys are very visual, we're easily stimulated by visual images. that's a biological thing. So, your being aroused by Vic's Secret images is understandable.

If you choose not to look at the images, just don't confuse your moral choice about how you choose to handle your sexual urges with those urges themselves. Looking or not looking may or not be OK, FEELING that way is normal and you shouldn;t try to block that biological experience.

[Dolphus Raymond]

We can't tell you what is morally correct or not for you.

Guys are very visual, we're easily stimulated by visual images. that's a biological thing. So, your being aroused by Vic's Secret images is understandable.

If you choose not to look at the images, just don't confuse your moral choice about how you choose to handle your sexual urges with those urges themselves. Looking or not looking may or not be OK, FEELING that way is normal and you shouldn;t try to block that biological experience.

Exactly :)

No matter what way you put it, this is a normal temptation at best. It's one that affects every guy. If you choose to try to avoid it, don't do it because you think you're a freak. Every guy lusts. So does every girl.