what should i do?

[Dcj2]

me and a friend want to try sex!
were both guys i have my girlfriend and we have had sex and its amazing.
but for some reason we wanted to try. what do you guys think we should do?
and like for protection? does it feel the same?

[Lovelife090994]

If I were you since I have a girlfriend I wouldn't cheat on her with anyone of any gender curious or not. But it's you, if you really want to try fine, just be careful lest you wish to lose your flower?

[Josh from SoCal]

I can directly relate to your situation. I had the same thing happen. My friend and I wanted to try j/o together to see what it was like. We ended up doing some things besides that but didn't take it to the extreme, if you get my point. It was really awesome experience. It made our bond as friends even stronger and I'm glad we did it. We still do sometimes but it's not like a regular thing. I say if he already is down for it, then go for it. IF you decide to go the whole way with him, use protection just like you would with your girl. As amazing as sex with your girl might be, it's not bonding in the way that it will be with your friend. Totally different experience with totally different affects on you.

btw, how old are you? age does figure a bit into what I wrote. i dont want to be encouraging a 12 yr old to have sex!!!

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I'd hope you'd at least break up with her before you do so.

[Josh from SoCal]

@jayson - Why? If it's just a physical thing with his friend, then why mess up a perfectly good emotional relationship? keep it on the DL and go for it.

[SawyerSauce]

I'd go for it. You don't want to spend the rest of your life wonder what if or how would this feel. Chances are your girlfriend and you won't be together forever. Don't not do something you really want to do because of being in a relationship. you will end up resenting the relationship and maybe even her.

[johnsmith1]

me and a friend want to try sex!
were both guys i have my girlfriend and we have had sex and its amazing.
but for some reason we wanted to try. what do you guys think we should do?
and like for protection? does it feel the same?

That's a difficult one. Is it to just try the experience? What would happen if you and your friend wanted to continue? And what would it do to Ur relationship with your GF if you do? If it's a one off, try it. If it's going to continue, you would need to then choose between them.
In terms of protection, clean up beforehand and use lube. Condoms are still a good idea for STDs, but take away from the experience. It depends on your trust for him.

[Harley Quinn]

@jayson - Why? If it's just a physical thing with his friend, then why mess up a perfectly good emotional relationship? keep it on the DL and go for it.

Uhhhhh maybe because that isn't a dick move? If you're in a relationship, you respect the other person regardless of your sexual desires or whatever. If you'd keep something like that on the DL, I'd punch you in the face.

[tyryhamilton]

Uhhhhh maybe because that isn't a dick move? If you're in a relationship, you respect the other person regardless of your sexual desires or whatever. If you'd keep something like that on the DL, I'd punch you in the face.

Thank you just thank you

[Dcj2]

Uhhhhh maybe because that isn't a dick move? If you're in a relationship, you respect the other person regardless of your sexual desires or whatever. If you'd keep something like that on the DL, I'd punch you in the face.

i dont plan on cheating on her, or being a total dick.
we just wanted to experiment, and not exactly go all the way

[Bazinga]

Yeh I wouldn't if your in a relationship, even if its just physical out of respect don't think its a good idea. If she found out I doubt she'd just brush it off because you're just experimenting

[Josh from SoCal]

Uhhhhh maybe because that isn't a dick move? If you're in a relationship, you respect the other person regardless of your sexual desires or whatever. If you'd keep something like that on the DL, I'd punch you in the face.

If I kept it on the DL the you wouldnt know to punch me in the face. You are mistaking sexual curiosity for a relationship.

[Harley Quinn]

If I kept it on the DL the you wouldnt know to punch me in the face. You are mistaking sexual curiosity for a relationship.

Oh trust me, girls aren't that stupid. You are mistaking what a proper relationship is.

[Tarannosaurus]

Oh trust me, girls aren't that stupid. You are mistaking what a proper relationship is.
She's right, your girlfriend will know. How would you feel if your girlfriend started experimenting behind your back? You wouldn't cheat on your girlfriend with a girl so you shouldn't with a guy. If you talked to your girlfriend and she was okay with you experimenting then sure, go for it. That's probably very unlikely though. Wait until you're single.