Depression because of anger

[RebelHeart]

Met a guy a while ago, and it just all went great, it felt as great as I could feel. While ago he invited me to go out with him and his friends, they would go drinking. Started fun, started great, loved it.

That was, until the guy I knew started talking about abuse. Made some jokes about child abuse, nothing serious. Yet to me it was serious, really damn serious. Everything of the hell my dad put me through came back up.

I just feel messed up now, I finally, FINALLY, met someone I felt safe with, and then he pulls that trick on me. I just feel sick, really sick. Randomly vomitting and crying, and then they say love is a good thing. People have a strange opinion about good...

[1_21Guns]

People have a habit of making fun of things they don't know how to react to, or in a worse light they just have a downright terrible sense of humour, either way these people either aren't worth our time, or we have to try and look past the nonsense that spills out of their mouths. I know the feeling, my boyfriend makes those silly jokes about suicide sometimes and it hits a nerve, pretty hard and I've had a lot of problems with my temper but I can pretty much overlook it now, I know these things can be triggering but people often open their mouths before their minds and well, this is the result, don't let it drag you down love :hug3:

[Altiier]

People have a habit of making fun of things they don't know how to react to, or in a worse light they just have a downright terrible sense of humour, either way these people either aren't worth our time, or we have to try and look past the nonsense that spills out of their mouths. I know the feeling, my boyfriend makes those silly jokes about suicide sometimes and it hits a nerve, pretty hard and I've had a lot of problems with my temper but I can pretty much overlook it now, I know these things can be triggering but people often open their mouths before their minds and well, this is the result, don't let it drag you down love :hug3:

I agree... People tend to use humor as a defense mechanism, or to make themselves seem so experienced and chill that they can joke about anything (in other words they trick themselves into thinking they understand it enough to crack jokes about it)... As mean as that seems, we all do it wether we mean to or not. Like teens (primarily boys) use words pertaining to Homosexuality in a vulgar way, because they feel the need to convey themselves in the straightest way possible to feel accepted. Society is a fucked up thing... But we half to deal with it, anyway he will probably grow out of that and realize he probably shouldn't joke about such serious topics... In the meantime let him know that you don't feel comfortable when he mentions child abuse. Hope that helps :D

[justin 13]

Rebel Im just a 13 y.o kid BUT I think give it a chance to this guy, cuz he doesnt know how deep this affect 2 u..I mean my friends make always jokes about faggots and gays and stuff being really mean BUT I know its not true. Im gay BTW in the closet.

[RebelHeart]

Rebel Im just a 13 y.o kid BUT I think give it a chance to this guy, cuz he doesnt know how deep this affect 2 u..I mean my friends make always jokes about faggots and gays and stuff being really mean BUT I know its not true. Im gay BTW in the closet.

Wish it would be that easy
He knew about the abuse done to me, every kind of abuse
yet he joked about it, like those things happen to everyone, like it's normal...

[justin 13]

Oh then he has been rude. Sorry I didn't get that. Maybe he is like my bro too immature.

[RebelHeart]

I noticed I didn't write it in the first post, so it's okay.

[Cygnus]

Since he knew that you were abused before it becomes an extremely rude thing, then again maybe he has had a calm life and thinks you have left it behind completely. Then again, if he knew that it makes it a dick move.

[Living For Love]

You need to tell him that those types of comments make you unconfortable. If he really loves you, he'll just stop.

[mariajelly]

i always say that if a boy isn't adding to your life then get rid of them and i think everyone will agree that abusive comments do not add anything to your life! also being more confident in yourself don't leave any room for abuse, just let it roll off you!

[Synyster Shadows]

This guy is an asshole for making jokes about that kind of stuff if he knew you went through it. Don't talk to him anymore.