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Nathan32
August 24th, 2013, 08:33 AM
Alright now i will get into the reason for me making this new Thread but first might i add i'm happy to be here (:.

Ok so i was just on skype with my mates the other day right? Just playing some Dayz like usual and my mate added this girl to the group call (idiot) Now i do not fall for anyone easy, And i generally do not "Cyber date" So don't be gettin on the haterade mkay? Anways she gets on the call and instantly grabs my attention. I have ALOT of friends that are girls on skype and alot of friends that are girls in real life, They are good friends yes but they have never made me so mad or so frustrated like her it just drives me mental. Her personality is just so perfect! Exactly like mine an we have alot of common ground. She asks me if i want to add her and all that (Being the nice guy i am i do -.- ) and within a week we are like talking all the time. Things were fairly good just talking you know. Then she just starts quizzing me and quizzing me all day xd now this usually doesn't faze me i tell them general things you know what i look like and all that so then she asks how tall i am ( 5"9 short -.-) And she asks if i was there could she hug me. Now this is where i draw a line right? I shut her down. Now usually a girl will drop the subject for a while and bring it back up buuut unfortunately for me i didn't know how persistent she was and that's when i fell for her :L The way she wouldn't give up asking me these questions and the way she just ughhh :L. I have it bad for her that is for sure now i should be smashing my face against a wall because it was the dumbest thing i ever did was talk to her because now we don't stop skyping! and She is a whole 20 hours away from me! No chance to actually be together whatsoever. We are both stubborn which can only make things worse :L So heres my question for all of you ( If you have taken the time to read this this) What do i do? She drives me insane :L In a good way of course XD Do i just let it be or do i stop this thing we have going here?

P.S
i have seen what she looks like so don't tell me she is trolling :L

Living For Love
August 24th, 2013, 08:47 AM
I don't know if I got your story right, but it seems to me that it's better if you just tell her you want to stay friends, because like you said, there's actually no chance for you to stay together. If she is really annoying you, just be honest, believe me. Tell her that you have other things to do than just talking with her. Whatever you do, make her think that you like her as a friend and, most importantly, someone you can trust on. Good luck.

Nathan32
August 24th, 2013, 09:28 AM
Thanks for the reply, This post may seem fairly inconclusive and condescending due to what i wrote here. However it isn't "Annoying" That we always talk. The annoying part of it is that i can't bring myself to not talk to her. If i log on she messages me. If she logs on i message her. The reason(s) for me stating that she annoys me is because it's the way that she gets in my mind every time we talk.

EDIT: Ugh Nevermind that last part if you already read that. If i do that again then i will most likely get back into cutting. SO i am open to more suggestions :L just to be clear i really like the fact that we talk alot. it doesnt bother me lol just making sure that i get that point across. As it stands i might just see what she says and go from there

Camazotz
August 24th, 2013, 10:14 AM
It'd be easier for you to just sever the ties now and delete her off your friend list. I would just block her completely so you're not tempted to talk to her.

Nathan32
August 24th, 2013, 10:27 AM
It'd be easier for you to just sever the ties now and delete her off your friend list. I would just block her completely so you're not tempted to talk to her.

Mm see i thought about that but it never ends well for me if i do that, I would feel like a real dick :L

Castle of Glass
August 24th, 2013, 11:32 AM
Mm see i thought about that but it never ends well for me if i do that, I would feel like a real dick :L

Life is hard sometimes. You have to make the choices your self. If I delete a person of skype/facebook/VT/what ever, then they probly had a reason they got deleted.

Also, you said a long distance relationship wouldn't work. Depending on your age, it may.

Camazotz
August 24th, 2013, 11:38 AM
Mm see i thought about that but it never ends well for me if i do that, I would feel like a real dick :L

You've got to do what you've got to do. Sorry man, but I think in the long run, this is the least painful way of saying goodbye.

Luminous
August 24th, 2013, 11:43 AM
Well if you delete he chances are she'll ask the guy who introduced you, which would mean you'd have to delete him too.. I think you're better just telling her that this won't work.

Nathan32
August 24th, 2013, 12:27 PM
Well if you delete he chances are she'll ask the guy who introduced you, which would mean you'd have to delete him too.. I think you're better just telling her that this won't work.

He is way younger then us (We are both only 15 the guy who was hosting the call is like 11 and he is reeally annoying -.- ) But this might be all i can do :L It's a shame too if she had of been closer :L Brings back hurtful memories :[ thanks everyone :L i just don't know wht to say to her never beenn good with the break ups. I just hope it won't be like last time :[