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clueless_one
August 23rd, 2013, 03:40 AM
I asked the a girl who knows my crush to find out if my crush likes me back. She came back to me two days after I asked her and the girl I asked said my crush likes someone else. I then told her to tell my crush I like her but want to be friends.

Yet when I saw the girl I like she calls me by a nickname which her and her friend came up with. I had asked out a girl previously and this girl found out. One of the girls in my class asked me how my girlfriend was and I said I didn't have a girlfriend. After this, the girl I like started calling me by the nickname she came up with again (She stopped calling me by the nickname after finding out I asked out a girl) and also saying Awwwwwww [nickname] after seeing my school photo. (she extended the length of my nickname instead of just saying it normally)

Could the girl who knows my crush be lying about my crush liking me? Could it be that my crush does like me but is hiding it?

Croconaw
August 23rd, 2013, 02:58 PM
She loves you and she would do anything in the world to be with you. You should ask her out because she will definitely say yes and you two will live together forever. :)

Cygnus
August 23rd, 2013, 04:32 PM
you two will live together forever. :)

I don't think it works that way.

She does like you, or just sympathizes with you more, so just ask her out already since we have given you the same advice many times.

Camazotz
August 23rd, 2013, 06:49 PM
Could the girl who knows my crush be lying about my crush liking me? Could it be that my crush does like me but is hiding it?

Your crush could like you; she could also not like you. She may have told her friend that she doesn't like you. She may actually like someone else but also like you. It could be anything.

From my experiences, I would guess that she thinks it's cute that you have a crush on her, and she's just teasing you because she knows. You should ask her yourself if she likes you because you'll get a more direct answer.

clueless_one
August 25th, 2013, 01:11 AM
I forgot to also add that I had said something that wasn't funny and the girl I like laughed and said LOL.

So then the signs she showed (All were on the same day) are:

Yet when I saw the girl I like she calls me by a nickname which her and her friend came up with. I had asked out a girl previously and this girl found out. One of the girls in my class asked me how my girlfriend was and I said I didn't have a girlfriend. After this, the girl I like started calling me by the nickname she came up with again (She stopped calling me by the nickname after finding out I asked out a girl) and also saying Awwwwwww [nickname] after seeing my school photo. (she extended the length of my nickname instead of just saying it normally)

I said something that wasn't funny and the girl I like laughed and said LOL.

teen.jpg
August 25th, 2013, 01:49 AM
Just ask her out before you blow it.

clueless_one
August 25th, 2013, 02:11 AM
Just ask her out before you blow it.

I think I already have. I asked someone who knows her to find out who she likes. I git a reply and it was she likes someone else. I then told her to tell her that I like her and want to be friends.

teen.jpg
August 25th, 2013, 02:37 AM
I think I already have. I asked someone who knows her to find out who she likes. I git a reply and it was she likes someone else. I then told her to tell her that I like her and want to be friends.

... That's not asking her out though. That's how middle school kids ask people out.

If you expect her to have any sort of respect for you, you have to do it face-to-face.

Living For Love
August 30th, 2013, 08:41 AM
I agree with Myles, you need to be honest with her. Stop asking other people to see if she likes you, and just talk to her directly. Say that you like her and want to be her friend, and tell her that you want her to know that she can count on you if she needs anything.