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Lizzyskittey
August 22nd, 2013, 10:25 PM
So, me and my friend constantly fight about whether she is ugly or not so we wanted to set the record straight.

Maybe you guys could tell us who is right?
Is she pretty or is she ugly?
Please help us by being completely honest.

https://fbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-frc3/970557_4703926767775_731573726_n.jpg
https://sphotos-b-lax.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/936431_3054116410128_1981155678_n.jpg
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BSUpqgmCIAAv76z.jpg
https://fbcdn-sphotos-h-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn2/v/1174768_10200155033350210_697138254_n.jpg?oh=95072d0c7dce590e4c1934522bd70b72&oe=52194503&__gda__=1377413886_d321e2dd2c57cc7ba8d2a53c07cbc4bd

Please please be 100% honest.
Thank you very much.:)

P.S. None of these photos have me in them so, anyone else you see is probably a cousin or another friend.

Luminous
August 22nd, 2013, 10:45 PM
I can't see the third picture.
She's got a really nice smile and a clear face. Her skin color is not too dark and not too light brown. Her hair looks very soft and healthy but I'm not a fan of it short. She also has a big chest which a lot of girls envy.
I think she is on the pretty side.

unknownuser
August 22nd, 2013, 10:56 PM
Whether someone is ugly or not shouldn't be something to argue over; everyone has a different opinion, you're not going to get a concrete "yes" or "no" answer.

Does your friend bring it up herself and out of nowhere says that she's ugly? If that, it would seem like she's kind of looking for attention and wants a compliment; she knows that she's pretty.

On the other hand, if you complement her saying "you're pretty" and she replies, "no I'm ugly", she's in a state of denial. All people are going to be different, but to many, trying to convince them that they're pretty when they've got it encoded in their mind that they're ugly isn't really going to help, it might just make the issue worse. She is going to have to learn to accept and love herself for who she is; looks and all.

Your friend looks like a nice and happy girl, she shouldn't be fretting over her looks. :)

suicidalbutter
August 22nd, 2013, 10:59 PM
Okay complete honesty here (completely assuming):

She probably only thinks she's ugly because she's bigger than the average female. And society makes plus sized people feel disgusting about themselves. Also every woman... EVERY single girl/chick/woman whatever. thinks she's not enough or she's not pretty. because she thinks she should be a size 00 with a gap behind her thighs. She needs to learn self love and stop beating herself up with negativity about her weight/size or whatever could be making her feel ugly. or instead of feeling ugly, she could try dropping the pounds. Exercise and a well balanced meal plan will help her drop those inches. If you feel ugly because of your weight do something about it. Don't whine you feel ugly.

ByXaz
August 22nd, 2013, 10:59 PM
If your friend is so insecure about how she looks she should be disallowed from using the internet. So should you for posting this. People around here will only be nice and you know it. You could at least wait in the chatbox for an answer after you spam everyone. You want my honest opinion? No she isn't pretty. There. She's not ugly. Get off the internet if you're going to act like this.

Lizzyskittey
August 22nd, 2013, 11:08 PM
If your friend is so insecure about how she looks she should be disallowed from using the internet. So should you for posting this. People around here will only be nice and you know it. You could at least wait in the chatbox for an answer after you spam everyone. You want my honest opinion? No she isn't pretty. There. She's not ugly. Get off the internet if you're going to act like this.

First of all, excuse you, that was pretty rude.
Secondly, who are you to tell people what they should be allowed and disallowed from? Also, I said to be completely honest. If people want to be just "nice" then that's their choice. It has nothing to do with me and what I'm trying to achieve from this. This is a serious topic and we've discussed this with my friend and SHE EVEN PICKED OUT THE PICTURES HERSELF FOR ME TO POST. We just wanted to know a stranger's opinion on her physical features, without knowing her personality or anything else.

Finally, please don't tell me to get off the internet or tell me to do anything else in general. The internet is for a lot of things and your opinion of what should and should not be on the internet, doesn't define what it actually is.

Thank you very much, hope this helped to clear up that issue.

As for others, thank you so much for your replies, they honestly mean a lot. Thank you thank you thank youuu!!! :):yeah::P

Luminous
August 22nd, 2013, 11:15 PM
As for others, thank you so much for your replies, they honestly mean a lot. Thank you thank you thank youuu!!! :):yeah::P
Not a problem! You can always vm/pm me if you want to talk.

teen.jpg
August 22nd, 2013, 11:58 PM
Yeah, I think she's pretty :) But honestly, I don't think we should be talking about people's appearances like this.

Plasma
August 23rd, 2013, 12:18 AM
First of all, excuse you, that was pretty rude.
Secondly, who are you to tell people what they should be allowed and disallowed from? Also, I said to be completely honest. If people want to be just "nice" then that's their choice. It has nothing to do with me and what I'm trying to achieve from this. This is a serious topic and we've discussed this with my friend and SHE EVEN PICKED OUT THE PICTURES HERSELF FOR ME TO POST. We just wanted to know a stranger's opinion on her physical features, without knowing her personality or anything else.

Finally, please don't tell me to get off the internet or tell me to do anything else in general. The internet is for a lot of things and your opinion of what should and should not be on the internet, doesn't define what it actually is.

Thank you very much, hope this helped to clear up that issue.

As for others, thank you so much for your replies, they honestly mean a lot. Thank you thank you thank youuu!!! :):yeah::P

Well, he was being completely honest... How could someone ever be rude if you ask them to be honest?

Elysium
August 23rd, 2013, 12:27 AM
I could go into more detail with this, but I think she's very attractive. Can I have her hair, please?

Perhaps I'm biased, but after a few perusals of the pictures you provided, I really can't find anything to be fussy about.

Harley Quinn
August 23rd, 2013, 12:33 AM
This thread has already gone downhill, as much as I'd like to help we don't allow threads like this with the sole purpose of rating looks or anything like that. Furthermore, it's already got out of hand which and I'm not tolerating it. :locked: