First Kiss Fear?

[SmokyChica]

My boyfriend is terrified of kissing me. The first time I tried, he walked away from me. We had our first kiss and a few others, but the only way we kiss is if he doesn't see it coming and it's a surprise. I don't want to break up with him, but this is getting a little annoying and insulting. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to help him get over this fear?

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Ask him about it.

[ovoxo23]

My boyfriend is terrified of kissing me. The first time I tried, he walked away from me. We had our first kiss and a few others, but the only way we kiss is if he doesn't see it coming and it's a surprise. I don't want to break up with him, but this is getting a little annoying and insulting. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to help him get over this fear?

I don't know why a guy wouldn't want to kiss his gf. Maybe he just think he's a bad kisser or he's nervous about sonething.... or some other things but I wouldn't want to worry you. You should just ask him about it. Just be really gentle and sweet and adk why he doesn't want to and let him know that whatever the reason is, it's ok to tell you.

[Croconaw]

He probably think he's a bad kisser. As stupid as that sounds that is really the only reason. If he likes you, he should have no problem with kissing you.

[justin 13]

If I were u i ask right away: Dont u like the way I kiss? Or What r u afraid of?

[Cygnus]

Maybe those days he could have had bad breath and been aware of it, and bad breath can kill a relationship.

[Meganium]

He's probably self-conscious about something in the way he kisses you. Ask. Maybe you can help more than you know.

[Miri]

I can't think of any reason other than that he's self-conscious about something.
If you tell him that's he's doing a good job, that might help :)
If not, bring it up in a conversation and let him know that he can tell you why.

[Allain1996]

Well, what is making him nervous? Try to talk to him about it, but be gentle and kind, not mean or demanding because then he'll just shut down probably. See what he's nervous about and try to work with him on it.
I can't exactly relate to him on being nervous to kiss because I was the exact opposite of him, and I got to the point that I wanted my first kiss so bad that I would have kissed a tree if given the chance. Lol
It all worked out for me though because I got my first kiss (and much more :P) from the girl of my dreams who I'd had a crush on for several years, and I hope it'll work out for you and him too! :)

[Gumleaf]

I can't think of any reason other than that he's self-conscious about something.
If you tell him that's he's doing a good job, that might help :)
If not, bring it up in a conversation and let him know that he can tell you why.

I totally agree with this, communication is the key. Most likely it's got something to do with nerves or he doesn't think he's a good kisser, like others have said. But communication is the key. Before making drastic decisions like breaking up, talk to him about it. You won't know why until you do.

[numbness]

when i had my first bf i was scared of kissing him because i thought i wouldnt do it right maybe its the same thing,i would ask him about it :) btw im fine with kissing now :)