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PinkFloyd
August 22nd, 2013, 01:58 PM
For the original thread, click on the link: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=186058

Well it's been about a month since she moved away. I've tried my best to get over her, but I just.... can't. I mean we knew each other when both of us were toddlers at the age of like 2. No one can replace her. Even her friends that remind me of her most can't. Plus, it would be really shallow of me to do anything with her friends who yes, I'm physically attracted to, but I have SOME self control.

We have talked a few times over Skype, but it wasn't nice because both of her parents were in the room, listening and watching what we say and do.

After all, it was just a teaser for me. All I wanted to do was hug her. I couldn't though because she's thousands of miles away in Europe...

The only hope of us seeing each other any time soon is when we both graduate high school in 3 years, when we're 18, and meet up in Los Angeles as we planned. but come on. That's 3 years away. Anything could happen. I guess the only solid thing is that her parents can't hold her back when she becomes a legal adult like they have always done. Plus, by that time, they can't go to the police about us doing things because we will both be adults.

This whole thing blew up in our faces. I mean for fucks sake, we did the grown up thing and told our families that we were sexually active. Props to you if you can think of anyone that has done that. What's worse is that her parents LIED.

Okay, this rant is over because now I'm crying a little. Sorry.

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August 22nd, 2013, 02:08 PM
:( Excuse me being a bitter and lonely jackass right now.

Sounds like you're really in love there. But really? You're going to go through 3 years of loneliness for her? Sadly, people change over time. She most likely won't be the same girl she is now 3 years later.

You most likely are going to eventually have to move on.

Synyster Shadows
August 22nd, 2013, 02:50 PM
I'm really sorry about that, Rob, but Jayson's right. She might not be the same person in three years. You'll just have to get over her. Granted, you'll never really forget about her, becuase it really doesn't work that way, but you'll move on and find someone new.

PinkFloyd
August 22nd, 2013, 05:04 PM
I'm really sorry about that, Rob, but Jayson's right. She might not be the same person in three years. You'll just have to get over her. Granted, you'll never really forget about her, becuase it really doesn't work that way, but you'll move on and find someone new.

:( Excuse me being a bitter and lonely jackass right now.

Sounds like you're really in love there. But really? You're going to go through 3 years of loneliness for her? Sadly, people change over time. She most likely won't be the same girl she is now 3 years later.

You most likely are going to eventually have to move on.

This is what I'm trying to accept, but my mind keeps repelling the idea that she won't be the same semi innocent girl that I've become s attached to.

Gumleaf
August 23rd, 2013, 05:54 AM
I've been through a similar experience, although the distance was much less then it is for you. But the reality was the same. A few months after she moved she broke it off, and it still hurts now. This was a year ago now and it still hurts. She isn't the same person she was 2 years ago, she has moved on. Like what's been said before me, it's highly unlikely your gf will be the same person in 3 years time. Times change and people change. If your relationship survives that, you have something very very special, but you need to prepare yourself for the likelyhood your relationship won't last.

Luminous
August 23rd, 2013, 07:01 AM
To add on to what the other people are saying about her not being the same person- you won't be either, though you might not realize it. You could be long distance for 3 years and when you meet again you barely know each other.