Why can't I do it?

[Thatoneguy3179]

Ok, so I am absolutely positive I'm 100% gay. I thing guys are cute and I want to make love with them. But I just can't come out. Well i take that back, I can come out. I just can't talk to people I've come out to. I think i just made a stupid decision on who I came out to.
So anyways, please give me your opinion. I was texting this girl and we were talking about what classes we were gonna take in high school. All of a sudden, she asked me "so who do you like?" I said I didn't know and she replied asking me, "are you....you know...fruity?" I asked what do you mean but that. She asked me if I liked guys or girls. I figured that since she asked me I might as well tell her since she would find out eventually anyway. I forgot to mention I barely know this girl. Yeah, kinda weird. But anyway, I said yeah and then she said, "I've always wanted a gay friend!" So now she acts like my friend but I think it's ONLY because I'm gay.
Well thanks for reading. Please give your opinion on this situation. Thanks!!!

[Abyssal Echo]

I'd say you just came out :/ Only time will tell it she keeps it a secret or not. I wish you the best. I hope it turns out Ok for ya.

[justin 13]

Im not gonna help you dude cuz I decided NOT 2 come out until college. No way. Be careful.

[Josh from SoCal]

Im not gonna help you dude cuz I decided NOT 2 come out until college. No way. Be careful.

I feel ya, brah. I'm the same way. I feel kinda stupid though cuz i know ppl who are out and no one basically gives a sh*t. but for some reason, the fact that i like guys also is something im not sharing publicly around here. mostly i think cuz i dont know how my parents will react. I like girls but more and more im attracted to guys and seem to prefer them.

As for the original post.... it seems to be the same all over the place from what I can tell. If you don't have at least one gay friend then you're not considered chill. I'm a hypocrite because I think it's perfectly fine but yet i'm still not ready to come out about my own sexuality. Hmmmm..... I think I'm gonna post a thread asking about this. :what: