i need help ive been doing self harm

[demon warrer]

[/COLOR]hello im new here and i need some help ive been depressed and i now do self harm and hide as sport injures could some one plz help me and ive been thinking about cutting myself

[thesphinx]

Welcome to VT I'm Mike :D
Anyway why are you depressed?
If you give us a little more info about your situation we can better help you :)

[demon warrer]

will ive been put though heck and back and ive practculy had to rase my self

[thesphinx]

Sorry to hear that, have you ever considered therapy? It is a great way to get your feelings out and a wonderful alternative to SI, you just have to get used to the person your talking to but after that its great!

[demon warrer]

i tryed that but that didnt work out for me

[doommuffin]

dude, lifes tough. i used to cut a lot. i know how hard things can be, believe me. i've had more than my due fare of run-ins with cops, psychiatrists, etc. but i pushed through. there were times i wanted to just end it all, but i fought. now ive got the worlds coolest girlfriend and im having the best time of my life.
so, point is, just believe in yourself and know that things will get better, because they will, i promise

[demon warrer]

who will they get better i had a girlfriend but i broke up with her and after that every thing went down for me

[thesphinx]

Have you been to a Psychologist?

[demon warrer]

yes but she didnt work out for me i as happy wen i was with her

[thesphinx]

It takes time to find the right Psychologist please don't give up, I went through 10 Psychologists before I found the right one.

[demon warrer]

thanks for the info but can you help me

[thesphinx]

yes, I can try to help you as much as I possibly can. What exactly are you having trouble with? We can IM sometime if you'd like.

[demon warrer]

ok but im at school all the time and im having trouble with every thing

[Axellance]

Dont start cutting it is a verry tough habit to break, i know from expeariance

[Chris1993]

Purging posts.

[Crystal-Clear]

When you say everythings gone down hill, what exactly do you mean??
Is it friendships, school life, home life, or is just this particular issue with your girlfriend?
Perhaps you should look a bit deeper, as to whats bothering you, and perhaps try to figure out whats triggering you to want to self harm.

[Techno Monster]

Don`t give up dude, life is tough.

[scatman]

going thorugh hard times happens to us all its somehting that we all learn form,

but hurting yourself isnt s way to deal with it. the way i look at it is,

What do gain from hurting your self, besides a scar thats you later regret then cut yourself ever more because your depressed about the scar fromt he firs time? its not worth it