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Jackky
August 20th, 2013, 07:40 AM
Hi, sorry this is a long post but I feel I need to start from the beginning.

I met my same-sex best friend about 4 years ago at school. We both board at school and in our first year together we spent the year knowing each other and at the end of the year we went on holiday together. Later in the holidays he came to mine and when I was in boxers he pulled them off me and I got his penis too and we just stood holding each others and did this at night.

In Year Two and three at school we did more, he regularly tossed me off I only have done to him once but don't regret it, I normally suck his penis and he did too me. At night he would come and sleep with me in a single bed and we would do things then. We did things whenever we had a chance, even at 8AM at times.

Moving onto last year, we stopped doing anything for a few months and are friends. Now though we are back to how we were and just a few days ago we went away for the weekend and he tossed me off and I sucked his knob.

Many people think I am gay and people aren't sure about him. I think I probably am and would honestly live with him if I got my own way. One thing we have never done though as daft as it sounds is kiss! He often has Girlfriends but often breaks up after a few days with them and we tell each other we love them.
Even my parents take the mick out of us been gay but don't know what we do!

What I need advice for though is what to do, we only have a year at school together and I love him but don't know what to do( we have never spoke. About going out and only us two know what we do). He doesn't think he will go to uni but I probably would but if it meant us two been together for good I would choose him without thinking.

If you were me,
What would you do?
How would you ask him if he is gay, he's never admitted it
How should I tell him i love him

Thanks for reading

The Flash
August 20th, 2013, 07:49 AM
Awwwwww
Umm, you should just tell him you have feelings for him, like the next time you're together. Unless he's homophobic. Or you should ask something like "What would your reaction be if one of your friends were gay?"

He might be bi or gay, but just has girlfriends to hide the fact that he is.

mijr1999
August 20th, 2013, 12:02 PM
next time you do stuff with him just ask him if hes gay and see what he says then if he says yes ask him out

justin 13
August 20th, 2013, 04:38 PM
Yeah I would ask 2 him and move on.

MilitaryBoy
August 20th, 2013, 05:12 PM
Hi, sorry this is a long post but I feel I need to start from the beginning.

I met my same-sex best friend about 4 years ago at school. We both board at school and in our first year together we spent the year knowing each other and at the end of the year we went on holiday together. Later in the holidays he came to mine and when I was in boxers he pulled them off me and I got his penis too and we just stood holding each others and did this at night.

In Year Two and three at school we did more, he regularly tossed me off I only have done to him once but don't regret it, I normally suck his penis and he did too me. At night he would come and sleep with me in a single bed and we would do things then. We did things whenever we had a chance, even at 8AM at times.

Moving onto last year, we stopped doing anything for a few months and are friends. Now though we are back to how we were and just a few days ago we went away for the weekend and he tossed me off and I sucked his knob.

Many people think I am gay and people aren't sure about him. I think I probably am and would honestly live with him if I got my own way. One thing we have never done though as daft as it sounds is kiss! He often has Girlfriends but often breaks up after a few days with them and we tell each other we love them.
Even my parents take the mick out of us been gay but don't know what we do!

What I need advice for though is what to do, we only have a year at school together and I love him but don't know what to do( we have never spoke. About going out and only us two know what we do). He doesn't think he will go to uni but I probably would but if it meant us two been together for good I would choose him without thinking.

If you were me,
What would you do?
How would you ask him if he is gay, he's never admitted it
How should I tell him i love him

Thanks for reading

Just be honest with him. Meet him somewhere private and just tell him. See how it goes from there and at the very least, make sure you two stay friends no matter what.