Public pool

[Blablabla36489]

Hi,guys!

I've been to public pool last 2 days. My problem is that I can't stop watching more muscular guys but I don't really care for girls. Does this mean I'm gay? Does this happen to you?

[Lost in the Echo]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

It could be hormones, or maybe you're truly gay, you'll have to come to that conclusion yourself.
But I doubt this alone would be enough to classify you as gay.

[teen.jpg]

You could be, you couldn't be. We could only guess, and guessing would get us nowhere.

You'd know better then we could.

[mijr1999]

it could be anything you might want to be like those guys you might be bi

[Kasp]

Maybe curious

[Bazinga]

Might just be curious but if you find yourself looking at guys more than girls in other situations aswell then thats a better reason to think you might be gay.

[justin 13]

I'm gay and I don't like muscular guys.

[Xavier2]

Best part of swimming! :D

If you think something like "I'd love to have a boyfriend like that" and don't think about any girls in the same way then quite possibly, though you would need to take more factors into account to consider yourself gay over bisexual. For instance, is it just at the pool or other places as well where you can't take your eyes off other guys and don't notice girls in general?

[Abyssal Echo]

Sounds like curiosity and hormones. don't be in a hurry to label yourself. Go with the flow. just be yourself and have some fun. In time you will figure things out.

[fast8]

That don't make u gay might just be hormones

[islandguy06]

Same

[wozemonkey]

well if i was u personally i would not know

[James Bond]

If you don't look at girls what so ever, you might be bi or gay. But just wait till your done with puberty to label yourself, we don't officially stop puberty till the age of 24-25 years old.

[steellord321]

^ That is pretty ridiculous, 24-25 would be serious denial. If he wants to be with guys in college for example he should do that. If he wants to identify as something now he can do that too.

[kylem1229]

Its hard to tell. Since your only 13, it might just be curiosity. You have to wait a few years to find out. If you keep looking at men after 16ish or so, then there may be a chance you are bi.


(I see that your sig says BI, which im guessing you put on after this thread, so thats what im gonna presume for now).

[Jamie_P]

just because you look at muscular guys doesn't necessarily mean that you are gay. it may just be your hormones or you may just admire their body as you may also have some desire to look like them in the future. Also you're only 13 years old and still going through puberty, so you may just be curious to see what a fully matured male body looks like.

[GeorgeBoy]

no you only curious !!!

[lukene]

I really don't think you decide your sexuality off "I can't stop watching more muscular guys but I don't really care for boys." Your sexuality isn't based exclusively on the gender you are attracted to (although that is important) especially when you are our age, things change, you'll change. Also, frankly, I don't quite understand the point of these question. How can we, a third party that knows nothing of you except for the four sentences you provided us with, judge better than you if you are gay or not. We can give you definitions and our opinions, but in reality, none of that matters. You will know eventually, just be honest with yourself and think realistically about how much you are emotionally attracted to guys and girls but make sure you are honest. Otherwise, you will find yourself trying to convince yourself that you are something that you are not.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Hi,guys!

I've been to public pool last 2 days. My problem is that I can't stop watching more muscular guys but I don't really care for girls. Does this mean I'm gay? Does this happen to you?

I cant say if you are gay or not - but its normal to feel like you are looking and admiring a bit.

[ksdnfkfr]

I think you missed the point.

Dude you're bumping a months old thread and responding to someone who was banned a while ago :headbonk:

[Elysium]

This thread was bumped. :locked: