Get the feeling everyone treats me like I'm some kind of monster

[clueless_one]

I don’t know what to do. Everyone seems to just push me around and I can’t do anything to stop them because I don’t want to be violent or hurt anyone. I can’t be myself around people. The things I like to talk about and my personality have lead to me thinking everyone thinks I’m some kind of monster. I can’t talk about things I enjoy without people making fun of me. With the girls I like, I'm nice, look confident, have daily showers, brush my teeth, try to look good, put deodorant on. I admit I'm not athletic and do sports but that shows that I'm just a standard normal guy. But no girls seem to like me back, strengthening my feeling of people thinking I’m some kind of monster. Life has become so hard for me that I don’t feel like living anymore. I’m not sure what to do. Please help?

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1. You need to get some good friends who like you for you. If the ones you have now laugh at you like that, they aren't real friends.

2. Stop beating yourself up about the fact that not every girl you like feels the same way. Eventually someone will come along that you'll be happy with.

3. Neither of these things are bad enough for you to say that "life is hard" or "I don't feel like living anymore." I don't know what you're going through, but seriously? I've seen so many bad things happen to people and THEY don't give up. So you definitely don't have the right to.

[clueless_one]

1. You need to get some good friends who like you for you. If the ones you have now laugh at you like that, they aren't real friends.

2. Stop beating yourself up about the fact that not every girl you like feels the same way. Eventually someone will come along that you'll be happy with.

3. Neither of these things are bad enough for you to say that "life is hard" or "I don't feel like living anymore." I don't know what you're going through, but seriously? I've seen so many bad things happen to people and THEY don't give up. So you definitely don't have the right to.

No one wants to be friends with me because they don't like what I talk about therefore I can't be myself which leads to me keeping quiet.

Only the girls seem to understand me a little bit more and they talk to me a little more (maybe its because i'm shy and they use it as an advantage, i don't know). But when I like one certain girl and ask them out they reject me as I explained, i am just a normal person.

Therefore its like no one wants to be with me and they don't want to be seen with me.

Conclusion... My life is well... fucked.

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No one wants to be friends with me because they don't like what I talk about therefore I can't be myself which leads to me keeping quiet.

Only the girls seem to understand me a little bit more and they talk to me a little more (maybe its because i'm shy and they use it as an advantage, i don't know). But when I like one certain girl and ask them out they reject me as I explained, i am just a normal person.

Therefore its like no one wants to be with me and they don't want to be seen with me.

Conclusion... My life is well... fucked.

Well when you're that negative I can see why.

If you don't act shy, and try to be outgoing, and the kind of person people like to hang around, you wouldn't have such problems.

I'm all for you being yourself and not changing who you are, but in this case it might be for the better.

[clueless_one]

Well when you're that negative I can see why.

If you don't act shy, and try to be outgoing, and the kind of person people like to hang around, you wouldn't have such problems.

I'm all for you being yourself and not changing who you are, but in this case it might be for the better.

i am outgoing... My fucking parents avoid me from having fun.

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i am outgoing... My fucking parents avoid me from having fun.

And what are you referring to when you say "having fun" ?

[clueless_one]

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For god's sake get a fucking grip. Things are only going to be as good as you make them. So you can either make it better for yourself or sit here and complain about "how hard life is".

[clueless_one]

For god's sake get a fucking grip. Things are only going to be as good as you make them. So you can either make it better for yourself or sit here and complain about "how hard life is".

your no help to me... No one wants to help me. :cry:

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your no help to me... No one wants to help me. :cry:

What do you want me to say then? Because I'm just going to tell you exactly what you want to hear so your pleased.

[clueless_one]

What do you want me to say then? Because I'm just going to tell you exactly what you want to hear so your pleased.

its because your saying i'm negative. I'm as positive as anything. But deep, deep down i'm in pain and crying for help.

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its because your saying i'm negative. I'm as positive as anything. But deep, deep down i'm in pain and crying for help.

Nothing you said this entire time was positive. You might think you're being positive, but you're not.

You ask us for our advice and opinions on a weekly basis, and then proceed to ignore it and say that we're no help. Guess what, we don't have to reply to your threads. We don't have to make the effort to try and help you. But we do. The least you could do is not act like a tool about it and say that I'm "not helping".

[clueless_one]

Nothing you said this entire time was positive. You might think you're being positive, but you're not.

You ask us for our advice and opinions on a weekly basis, and then proceed to ignore it and say that we're no help. Guess what, we don't have to reply to your threads. We don't have to make the effort to try and help you. But we do. The least you could do is not act like a tool about it and say that I'm "not helping".

everyone tells me i'm positive and i'm proud when positive. Its only when people go on push me and annoy me. But I keep it inside. I'm dying inside. :cry:

See you don't care about me though. No one cares...

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everyone tells me i'm positive and i'm proud when positive. Its only when people go on push me and annoy me. But I keep it inside. I'm dying inside. :cry:

See you don't care about me though. No one cares...

I obviously care enough to post on the thread on the first place. And continue to still be posting on this thread. Pretty sure that's caring. But that isn't even what this thread is about ...

I don't even know what you want, what this is about, or anything like that. I said my piece, but you don't want to hear what I have to say. I can understand that.

[Stronk Serb]

Hang out with girls, nothing wrong in that. They understand you as you say, so try to build a friendship with them.

[justin 13]

Oh Dude I'm just the opposite of you on this: .... look confident, have daily showers, brush my teeth, try to look good, put deodorant on. ...
But I tried to get involved into sports and there I got some friends with common interests or hobbies I like soccer, so we start 2 chat about that and from there we become friends..hope this helps.

[clueless_one]

Oh Dude I'm just the opposite of you on this: .... look confident, have daily showers, brush my teeth, try to look good, put deodorant on. ...
But I tried to get involved into sports and there I got some friends with common interests or hobbies I like soccer, so we start 2 chat about that and from there we become friends..hope this helps.

that doesn't really help. I enjoy a sport which everyone where i'm from thinks is gay and doesn't support it. They make fun of the teams I support.

[Miri]

that doesn't really help. I enjoy a sport which everyone where i'm from thinks is gay and doesn't support it. They make fun of the teams I support.

Ok listen. Right now, I honestly think you are just bringing up more things to justify you feeling sorry for yourself.

1. Stop pretending to be someone you're not. The best type of friends accept you for you.

2. Try new things. It sounds to me like you have completely closed yourself off in a little box of things that are comfortable. You don't have to love a sport to try it, or you could not do any sport at all. There are always clubs to try out for.

3. I get the feeling that you have an obsession with being popular. Have you tried making friends with people who aren't necessarily at the top of the social scale?

4. A relationship can always wait. Shouldn't you wait until you are happy before you try to get involved with people in a way that's more than friends?

5. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself.

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that doesn't really help. I enjoy a sport which everyone where i'm from thinks is gay and doesn't support it. They make fun of the teams I support.

What sport?