heyy everyone, im just curious about some things?

[claire conway]

i was wondering when i should first have sex? ill be turning 14 in october?:what:

[ToxicApple69]

Wrong section. Also in my opinion sex is something you should hold off for a very long time...

[kylem1229]

Welcome to VT! And whenever you feel ready for it...just make sure you wont regret it in the future.

[StoppingTime]

Intros :arrow: Relationships and Dating. I think you'll find the best answers in this section, and welcome to VT :D

[PinkFloyd]

Only you know when the right time is. You can't just have it with some random person. They need to be close to you. The girl I did it with is someone that I've known all my life. Be safe. make sure he uses a condom.

[Elysium]

There is no designated age or other factor for having sex. It depends entirely on the individual. Whenever you feel that you are ready is the right time to have sex.

[Croconaw]

You should wait until you're ready. Don't feel pressured into it like you have to do it now.

[Cygnus]

Have sex when you feel comfortable with the person and know their and your body well.

[Camazotz]

There is no designated age or other factor for having sex. It depends entirely on the individual. Whenever you feel that you are ready is the right time to have sex.

^ This. You shouldn't have an age expectation when it will happen. Lots of teenagers feel pressured into having sex by a certain age to feel "cool" and to fit in. You should feel comfortable with your partner and yourself before engaging in sexual activity.

[Luminous]

Whenever you are completely comfortable with your partner and are emotionally ready to have sex. There's no specific age you have to do it. Some people are virgins into their 20s, and don't want to restrict sex to marriage. It's your choice and your life.

[Altiier]

There is no "right" or "wrong" answer to this question, the decision rests on your shoulders alone. Not the shoulders of other random teens on the internet. My opinion on the subject is do what feels right, if you're uncomfortable doing something then don't do it... You're your own person. Hope that helps :D

[kylem]

umm you'll like know when its right but just don't go crazy doing it to young. and make sure the dude wears a condom so that you don't get pregnant or a std! its your body and you have like control over it so you get to chose who sees you naked and have sex with you, I haven't had sex yet and im 15.

[Josh from SoCal]

i say wait. at least a couple years. its normal to start to want to now, but at least i think you should wait until your 15 at least. once you're that old, its hard to wait but even so.

virginity is like a 4.0. once you lose it, you can never get it back.

[Jess]

Whenever you feel ready......though I recommend waiting a few years.

[Nicola14Swaggy]

Don't do it yet if you dont feel like you are ready for it

[Pittsburgh]

I think its the biggest decision we make in our lives until we become adults. dont push it

[Tarannosaurus]

When you're emotionally and sexually ready for it. Make sure you know about birth control, STDs etc. Also, people having sex under 15 may be at a higher risk of getting certain STDs including HIV and AIDs.

[The Enderwoman]

I agree with what everybody else is saying. Only have sex when you are completely ready and comfortable with it. And if you feel you're going to regret it, don't do it! But if you do, use protection:)