I need help

[LateForTheSky]

I'll make this plain and simple and please don't ignore me this time,

I am looking for someone, trouble is I'm 13, I'm gay and I go to a catholic high school. What da fuck do a do? I know i'm young but everyone else has somone, I get rejected by a gay guy in our school now thats an insult. In a extremely homophobic enviroment i get knocked back by a gay guy! and hes the only one that i know.

theres 30 in our class if the statistics work out about 3 people in our class are gay. I'm one theres that other guy now there should be one more in my class and well I cant find any in my entire year group. And trust me I look.

What do I do?

[byee]

Well, I certainly wouldn't ignore you with a demand like that, it could be too risky. LOL! (j/k).

OK. Although you're gay, I don't necessarily think this is a gay issue (although your being gay definelty complicates matters).
I think there's a lot of people who want to find someone special, it's a universal human need. Unfortunately, it just doesn't happen because you want(or need) it. It takes a little luck and time. And in the case of being gay, someone who shares that orientation, which is more difficult to do when you're 13.

So, while you (or anybody else out there) is feeling lonely and waiting/hoping/wishing/wanting/yearning for that special someone, you do the next best thing. You realize that relationships come in many varieties, and that although a lot of them might not be as special, they can still feel mighty good. That's because you do not have to be 'going out' to get your emotional needs met.

Hold on, hold out, recognize that it takes time, and find others, surround yourself with people who you really like and who really like you, and enjoy that.

[Lifesreject]

As always Sam is spot on. You just to keep waiting and hoping. At 13 most people have probably not decided on their sexual orientation(if thats the right term) I guess you just got to keep hoping that special someone will be around for you soon.

[racy]

How do you know he was gay? Did he tell you?
Even if he is gay, maybe he doesn't want anyone to know, especially in a Catholic school with his Catholic family. What the F/uck are you cursing for? and making demands?

Even if i think i'm bi, maybe I want to be with a nice person, or someone that is my friend first.