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Destinyforce
August 18th, 2013, 07:39 PM
Now you may argue that this thread should be moved to Teen Sexuality, but I think it would be a good idea to get opinions from those who don't view that area. Also, it seems growing up, people are much more hostile to others that are different in terms of sexuality opposed to when they are adults. This question regards those who identify themselves as heterosexual, or Straight.

So my question is: What are you thoughts about homosexuality? If you are homophobic, give a reason why you think it is wrong?

Yes, I am assuming everyone will say they are accepting, but I will post this just in case. I'm intrigued really. Please answer with a strong reasoning. No bickering.

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August 18th, 2013, 07:42 PM
This happens a lot, and all it does is turn us into bickering animals.

Anyone against it is intolerant, anyone for it is ruining the sanctity of marriage and going against religion.

For the most part everyone here isn't homophobic, and even if they are they won't admit it because eventually they'll get hate for it.

That's just how it usually ends up ...

MilitaryBoy
August 18th, 2013, 07:47 PM
Yes, I believe that everyone should be able to live how they want. Whether you're straight, gay, or bisexual. It shouldn't matter as long as you're happy, because in the end that's all that matters.

Destinyforce
August 18th, 2013, 07:58 PM
Yes, but I just wanted to get answers from those who think It's wrong and their thoughts. I've only gotten irrelevant responses saying things such as It's stupid. It always seems as you mature, you become more tolerant, and you don't hate on people just to fit in.

tarheelboy8888
August 18th, 2013, 08:05 PM
I'm gonna put it this way....I don't hate homosexuals at all, not one bit. However, I do not AGREE with their lifestyle. If they want to do it, that is their opinion, but in my opinion, which I am entitled to, I don't agree with it.

islandguy06
August 18th, 2013, 10:32 PM
Not to be stereotypical but I think that gay people are very fun. They also turn shitty neighborhoods into progressive and modern cultural hubs!

Lovelife090994
August 18th, 2013, 11:26 PM
I'm guessing your asking on the opinion of homosexuality? Shouldn't this not be in Puberty? Oh well, I digress...

My view on it is to let all people live in peace yet and still I do not exactly agree with homosexuality, homosexuals can be great people but I see their ways as sinful. Whatever people call it, I just don't agree but I'd never agree with the hardship homosexuals face... Although in some cases we all face troubles sexually or otherwise.

Vocabulous
August 19th, 2013, 01:14 AM
I'm gonna put it this way....I don't hate homosexuals at all, not one bit. However, I do not AGREE with their lifestyle. If they want to do it, that is their opinion, but in my opinion, which I am entitled to, I don't agree with it.

its not really a choice though

tarheelboy8888
August 19th, 2013, 09:20 PM
I'm guessing your asking on the opinion of homosexuality? Shouldn't this not be in Puberty? Oh well, I digress...

My view on it is to let all people live in peace yet and still I do not exactly agree with homosexuality, homosexuals can be great people but I see their ways as sinful. Whatever people call it, I just don't agree but I'd never agree with the hardship homosexuals face... Although in some cases we all face troubles sexually or otherwise.

This is exactly how I feel

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August 19th, 2013, 09:32 PM
I don't see how you can have an opinion on someone's sexuality. It doesn't involve you. Nobody cares about your "views". Deal with it.

That being said, I don't trust anyone who "disagrees" with homosexuality.

Lovelife090994
August 19th, 2013, 09:35 PM
I don't see how you can have an opinion on someone's sexuality. It doesn't involve you. Nobody cares about your "views". Deal with it.

That being said, I don't trust anyone who "disagrees" with homosexuality.

Isn't that a little primitive?

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August 19th, 2013, 09:40 PM
Isn't that a little primitive?

I think it's a lot more primitive to disagree with someone happily living their life just because it's different to how you're living.

SCHS1998
August 19th, 2013, 09:42 PM
I am straight and by no means do I hate gays but I do DISAGREE with their views and lifestyle. My one reason why it is wrong is that it goes against my religion (Christianity). I know people say that lying, cheating, swearing, etc. are against my religion to and I know that but I am against those things too.

SCHS1998
August 19th, 2013, 09:44 PM
its not really a choice though

I have to disagree I think that it must be a choice because (in my opinion) because sins (yes I'm Christian) are things we can prevent by thinking about what choice to make.

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August 19th, 2013, 09:46 PM
I have to disagree I think that it must be a choice because (in my opinion) because sins (yes I'm Christian) are things we can prevent by thinking about what choice to make.

Then I'd like to know when you chose to be straight. Go on, I'm waiting.

SCHS1998
August 19th, 2013, 10:03 PM
I'm glad you asked my cousin is gay so I have been exposed to it for my entire life (he's 28). When I was 13 we sat and talked (i was curious at the time). He told me about his life, I asked questions, and he answered. From then on I have never had another sexual thought about a guy, and have been attracted to girls because I decided that's what I wanted. Your wait is over

Then I'd like to know when you chose to be straight. Go on, I'm waiting.
See post above

Please don't double post, use the edit button~Derri

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August 19th, 2013, 10:06 PM
See post above

That's not a choice. You were just straight to begin with.

SCHS1998
August 19th, 2013, 10:09 PM
That's not a choice. You were just straight to begin with.

How can you be so sure...you don't know me, you don't know my brain. Now I'll know you'll say that that is hypocritical but I can only pull my experiences and views.

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August 19th, 2013, 10:13 PM
How can you be so sure...you don't know me, you don't know my brain. Now I'll know you'll say that that is hypocritical but I can only pull my experiences and views.

You're right, I don't know you. But that's pretty much what you just said.

You don't choose who you're attracted to. Just like you didn't choose to be attracted to girls. You just are.

SCHS1998
August 19th, 2013, 10:21 PM
You're right, I don't know you. But that's pretty much what you just said.

You don't choose who you're attracted to. Just like you didn't choose to be attracted to girls. You just are.


There is no reason to continue this argument because obviously we will never agree. But I do want to say to you and everyone that you CAN make a choice. For a while I thought I was gay but then I decided I wasn't and now I'm not. You can say or think what ever you want but that is just what happened to me. That's how I KNOW

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August 19th, 2013, 10:27 PM
There is no reason to continue this argument because obviously we will never agree. But I do want to say to you and everyone that you CAN make a choice. For a while I thought I was gay but then I decided I wasn't and now I'm not. You can say or think what ever you want but that is just what happened to me. That's how I KNOW

It's not a decision a person gets to make ...

But whatever, you can believe whatever you want to.

qwertygirl
August 19th, 2013, 11:41 PM
I have to disagree I think that it must be a choice because (in my opinion) because sins (yes I'm Christian) are things we can prevent by thinking about what choice to make.
sorry man it's not a choice you were born straight and i was born straight and some people are born gay and they don't choose to be gay they choose to not deny it and then they live their "gay lives" which is something that is natural and feels right to them lol.
Not hating on you, like seriously, I'm glad you don't hate gays, but idk i think a lot of people seem to be missing that point.

Lovelife090994
August 20th, 2013, 02:28 AM
I think it's a lot more primitive to disagree with someone happily living their life just because it's different to how you're living.

You may what to reevaluate your thinking and reasoning my friend.

I am straight and by no means do I hate gays but I do DISAGREE with their views and lifestyle. My one reason why it is wrong is that it goes against my religion (Christianity). I know people say that lying, cheating, swearing, etc. are against my religion to and I know that but I am against those things too.

I agree with you, too bad others might not.

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August 20th, 2013, 02:41 AM
You may what to reevaluate your thinking and reasoning my friend.



I agree with you, too bad others might not.

Yes, so I should reevaluate my belief that people should be able to live their lives happily? Well excuse me ...

Lovelife090994
August 20th, 2013, 02:58 AM
Yes, so I should reevaluate my belief that people should be able to live their lives happily? Well excuse me ...

I admit I had a typo but did I mention the latter of your sentence? No, I mentioned reevaluating yout thinking since you seem as if you can not agree to disagree. I don't care what you think about me or my views, I'm not asking for approval, just asking why.

PinkFloyd
August 20th, 2013, 03:00 AM
Love is never wrong. That is all I have to say.

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August 20th, 2013, 03:06 AM
I admit I had a typo but did I mention the latter of your sentence? No, I mentioned reevaluating yout thinking since you seem as if you can not agree to disagree. I don't care what you think about me or my views, I'm not asking for approval, just asking why.

I think it's pretty ironic your telling me I can't "agree to disagree" when you started this conversation.

You're not even making a point anymore, because by now I'm sure you're seeing the flaw in whatever "logic" you had right now.

Anyway back to my original point, sexuality isn't a thing that people should have an opinion on. There isn't agreeing or disagreeing. It exists, whether you like it or not.

Lovelife090994
August 20th, 2013, 03:17 AM
I think it's pretty ironic your telling me I can't "agree to disagree" when you started this conversation.

You're not even making a point anymore, because by now I'm sure you're seeing the flaw in whatever "logic" you had right now.

Anyway back to my original point, sexuality isn't a thing that people should have an opinion on. There isn't agreeing or disagreeing. It exists, whether you like it or not.


Wait? Is that what you think the disagreement is about? Wanting all trace of something which in this case homosexuality to disappear? No, when most disagree with homosexuality, it is nothing personal to people follow live in that life, no it is a disagreement based on what homosexuality is and is a disagreement from Biblical points if that person's reasons are their faith.

It was never about we disagree because we can't accept that it exists. Plus don't be too quick to say someone has lost their logic when you seem to lack logical reasoning and reading comprehension. Now, no, I am not going to argue, you and I have said enough. Think about it. What is so bad about not everyone agreeing to a lifestyle? It's not just homosexaulity that many have a problem with. Alcohol, drugs, violence, abuse, swearing, cheating, killing, I disagree with many things but I've never hate to one involved.

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August 20th, 2013, 03:24 AM
Alcohol, drugs, violence, abuse, swearing, cheating, killing

You just compared people's sexuality to addictions, violence, abuse, and murder? I'm fucking done. You're unbelievable.

Lovelife090994
August 20th, 2013, 04:05 AM
WYou just compared people's sexuality to addictions, violence, abuse, and murder? I'm fucking done. You're unbelievable.

Wow you have selective reading bad. Nowhere did I equate any of those to it.

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August 20th, 2013, 04:15 AM
W

Wow you have selective reading bad. Nowhere did I equate any of those to it.

I said I'm done. Everything I wanted to say has been said.

Liven
August 20th, 2013, 09:24 AM
I, inside and out, accept people that are gay or homosexual. It is their choice, and I think that they are no different. They are humans also, they are not a different species because of their sexuality. They deserve the same rights as someone who is straight.

This whole debate is getting overly complicated, because of the government rejecting the people that are not straight. Yes, to live in the U.S., I guarantee you cannot walk around being any other sexuality other than straight, without some sort of complications. This, I think is generally sad. People can choose what sexuality they want to be. I do not reject them, other people might, but that is wrong.

They are humans too.

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August 20th, 2013, 01:20 PM
I, inside and out, accept people that are gay or homosexual. It is their choice, and I think that they are no different. They are humans also, they are not a different species because of their sexuality. They deserve the same rights as someone who is straight.

This whole debate is getting overly complicated, because of the government rejecting the people that are not straight. Yes, to live in the U.S., I guarantee you cannot walk around being any other sexuality other than straight, without some sort of complications. This, I think is generally sad. People can choose what sexuality they want to be. I do not reject them, other people might, but that is wrong.

They are humans too.

^ This, but it's not a choice. Never has been, never will be.

SoRandom
August 20th, 2013, 01:59 PM
Okay. I got high respect towards ETHICAL GAYS: Funny, law abiding citizen, fine sense of humor, friendly, Has no sexual interest whenever he is meeting a good looking guy or something, dress appropriately, doesn't wear girl outfits (but for the record, I salute some gays who has great taste in fashion even tho not all boys can wear it.) :D

Sorry but some gays are UNETHICAL: Becoming prostitutes, using they're masculinity to force some straight dude (they're some news), the pedos, undergoing sex change that'll lead to fooling a man, has a sexual interest everytime whenever they see a good looking guy & what kills me the most is a gay just stalked me while I was goin home... good thing I maneuvered myself into a blindspot so I got away with my adrenaline rush pumping. Hello?! I don't want him to know my house. that is the creepiest day of my life seriously.

Okay basically, I gots no homophobic issues but I judge people by their ethical/unethical traits. :)

Harley Quinn
August 21st, 2013, 08:57 AM
This has got way out of line. The OP asked a simple question of what heterosexuals thought about homosexuals. But, as I can see, a few of you do not know what it means to have a reasonable discussion. I apologise OP that I've had to lock this thread, you are free to remake it in Teen Sexuality/ROTW if you wish. However, for now I can't let it go on. :locked: