Obsession With People

[NzForever]

Sometimes, I get these obsessions with people. There obsessions of wanting to be friends with them.

Some times its people my year at my school, that I want to be friends with & at home at night, ill always think about ways to talk to them & bring up a conversation, but ill never talk to them.

Sometimes its someone that I see when, I'm on holiday.

I don't know this is odd, because I get a obsession & I will just want to be friends with them. Its always a rich white boy, I don't know why they just seem to be people I want to be friends with.

Another thing it's not a love obsession its just a friendship thing. I think this may be one reason, but I don't have a bestfriend. I actualy have lots of friends, I just hang in groups. I just don't have that 1 person I can call a best friend.

[Croconaw]

I can relate to this. I sometimes think of how nice it would be to be friends with a certain person.

[Danny Phantom]

I have this too. I always see some people and say "I wanna be their friend and such". What normally happens is:

a.) I do end up becoming good friends with them

or b.) these feelings keep going on and my social anxiety prevents me from being their friend.

[Luminous]

I knowwhat you mean, last week I kind if fell in love with this boy, like in a friend way. We were acting in something together. We clicked instantly and were like best friends. Unfortunately that's over now and we live like 3 hours away from each other.

[Pseudogeek]

I know what you mean. A lot of people find me annoying (hint: I'm hyper and spacey) so it kinda sucks when I want to be friends with someone and they don't.

[sqishy]

Ugh I had an obsession with a deep crush from 2009 up to last month, when I can't ever see him anymore and I had to let go (well I'm still in the process of that). It was all theorizing/thinking, no action/practicality for me. I hope I don't ever get into such a situation again. Either I let go ASAP because I know no relationship can happen, or I go for it. Not to be stuck in waiting and wasting the time I potentially have with this person.

[TurtleMcloud]

i understand completely, i always see people i never seen and feel we can be amazing friends, or people from school that i know i would like, i also hang out in groups but i guess i was fortunate enough to have 2 people that i used to call best friends, one acted horrible to me and i was the bad guy? anyways, you should go up to them and introduce yourself. its always a start :)

[Miri]

I understand.

I have this huge crush on this guy that I saw last week, and he sat in front of me. I just sat there thinking up scenarios that would lead us to bumping into each other, and making up conversations in my head.

[dontfiguremeout]

I've have done this plenty of times! Wish I could be friends with someone. But you can't be friends with everyone. I learned that, so you just need to make the best of it with the friends you do have!

[teen.jpg]

I'm the opposite. I find things to hate about people and focus on that. Don't ask why.

[Special K]

It's not a bad thing maybe you are just personable.